yellowtamarin wrote:
bumble wrote:
I am diagnosed with Social Anxiety but I suspect there is more going on than that. As I have never really been tested for anything I cannot be sure. I merely told my dr I had social anxiety many years ago as I was searching for the answer to my life long social problems and they just accepted it and went with it. I had not heard of Aspergers back then though!
That's quite a strange thing for them to do. I'm the opposite, the doctors have their own ideas and are reluctant to listen to mine - I'm currently being told I have Social Anxiety even though I never mentioned it at all and don't really agree. I struggle to get doctors to look for the underlying cause of my issues and instead they label me with something else related but more symptomatic than causal.
I think it is because I appear nervous in certain situations. I do get some social anxiety in some contexts but there are problems underlying that that I never really get a chance to discuss. They don't really give me long enough to cover it all! Plus I am slow to think up my replies to their questions and have trouble getting my words out when speaking in situations where I am anxious. Drs appointments make me anxious, so they see the anxiety and go with it lol.
I did tell a therapist at 16 that I could not mix with people, meaning more than just 'I am nervous around people' but she pretty much ignored it.
Plus I am not sure I want a diagnosis of Aspergers. I tend to find that people already treat me like I am a bit slow, and whilst I wouldn't treat someone who had Aspergers as though they were slow because I know they are not, I know what people can be like and how judgemental they can be. I don't need to encourage them to treat me even more slowly than they already do. It is bad enough as it is.