MissMikkyy wrote:
Haha whaat.. I'm not autistic or anything but I kind of have to wonder why anyone WOULDN'T bathe/shower every day, as long as they had the ability to..
Showering is very difficult for some of us to deal with. Personally, I can only deal with scent free body wash, as soap makes my skin even more uncomfortable and scents can cause migraines. Simply the smell of shampoo often makes me feel like I'm going to vomit. I'm unable to wear clothing until I'm completely dried off after showering or bathing, so I need to plan an extra half hour for drying off completely (even if my hair doesn't get wet).
The first few days after washing my hair, its physical painful to brush. (I have particularly dry hair). Washing my hair too often, causes me problems. If it doesn't need washed, getting it wet makes it harder for me to deal with other things, because the temperature differential of wet hair on my back to body temperature is hugely bothersome to me. Luckily, I can keep my hair in a bun on my head when I shower, so I can shower more often than wash my hair.
When someone else can just run through the shower, in order to do the same I must spend time figuring out what I can deal with that day, how much time I have, and whether its an option for me to shower or whether it'll not be an option. Often its not an option.
While its not that way to me, some people with sensory issues feel the water in either a bath or a shower as physically painful. Some, like me, find wet skin while not in water problematic. Some have difficulties with remembering to shower (like me again). While to most NTs showering is just something they do and don't think about, to some of us it is such a major thing to think about that we should reduce the number of hours we'd work if we're expected to take part in regular self-care activities daily.
As for my answer to this question - I bathe rather often in the getting wet sense because it helps with muscle tension, but in the washing with soap-like substances, definitely not daily.