"I don't need another friend. I already have two."

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RIGHT?!

i used to be popular around town when I was the resident DJ at this night club. I got really good at time measurements in the music, looping bars and adding effects of course. It was a time full of loose women and libations.

Maybe it seemed like I had more friends back then because everyone wanted to know me and I was more outwardly "cool." There were so many after parties with breaking out little baggies and passing splits around so much kissing and just generally getting weird in a rockstar lifestyle way.

Like everything else, I got sick of it.

I am working and back in school. Maybe it's just growing up but my friend statistics have significantly dwindled in the past two years. I have one and a half real friends. No one really gets me though. I'm petty much terribly isolated in having any support for whatever the f**k is going on with me.

Can anyone give me some tips for KEEPING friends? I have no trouble making friends with new people, it's just KEEPING that person as a friend that is difficult for me.

So, what about it?

Why friends, after years of friendship, suddenly disappear is the biggest mystery in life to me. I don't think any aspie or "specialist" has cracked this one. If someone ever does, they'll write a best-seller and become millionaires. I was never able to get any feedback from the vanishing friends either.