I have recently been reading Simon Baron Cohen's "The Essential Difference." I have found it most interesting, and thought provoking.
In it, he addresses the apparent differences in the male and female brains, the male brain being wired for systemizing and the female brain for empathizing. It is his belief that the Austistic spectrum represents an extreme form of the "male" brain. This does not preclude women from experiencing it of course, but accounts for the high percentage of males.
I found the discussion of the extreme female brain intersting, as it may already exist, but not be a problem in our society. The extreme empathizer can always find someone to repair their computer or car, but who can we systemizers look to when we fail at socializing?
I'd be very interested to hear some other opinions of this book, as well as other suggested reading.