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18 Feb 2012, 11:06 pm

Am I the only person here who thinks that term is patronising?

If anything I would call it an intense interest.



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18 Feb 2012, 11:07 pm

What's the difference between a special interest and an intense one?


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18 Feb 2012, 11:20 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
What's the difference between a special interest and an intense one?


The wording.



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18 Feb 2012, 11:29 pm

I guess you are thinking "special" as meaning somehow "disabled" right??

I think "special" as meaning "something of important value" to me

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19 Feb 2012, 12:18 am

I always just went with the term "obsession" and never thought about it much.

Is that bad?



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19 Feb 2012, 12:21 am

eristocrat wrote:
I always just went with the term "obsession" and never thought about it much.

Is that bad?


No.



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19 Feb 2012, 1:41 am

^ Ha ha good! Because it's really the most fitting term... I enjoy my obsessions.



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19 Feb 2012, 2:49 am

eristocrat wrote:
^ Ha ha good! Because it's really the most fitting term... I enjoy my obsessions.


I think it's only bad when someone calls you OCD because of it and you then have an uncontrollable urge to kick them in the shin.

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19 Feb 2012, 3:47 am

Lynners wrote:
eristocrat wrote:
^ Ha ha good! Because it's really the most fitting term... I enjoy my obsessions.


I think it's only bad when someone calls you OCD because of it and you then have an uncontrollable urge to kick them in the shin.

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What if you got the urge to correct them by saying how OCD is different to anal pedant-ism? :wink:



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19 Feb 2012, 4:52 am

Who first coined the term "special interest"? I always assumed it originated within the autistic community itself.

The DSM calls 'em: restricted repetitive and stereotyped patterns of behavior, interests and activities. Which is accurate from an objective point of view, but not very concise. So yeah, I think 'special' was suggested in the sense jojobean interprets it: "something of important value", rather than in the sense 'special' as 'disabled'.

I also used to say "obsession". Sometimes I still do. But these days, I prefer to just say 'hobby' and not make too much out of it.


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19 Feb 2012, 5:57 am

Dunno about "special interest" being offensive; I think "obsession" sounds more clinical and thus offensive, but I've had that term used on me since primary school so I don't care much anymore, I use both.


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19 Feb 2012, 6:01 am

I don't like that term either, makes me shudder.
Aspie is just as bad.



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19 Feb 2012, 6:03 am

What's in a name? If your special interest is roses, they would smell as sweet if you'd call it an obsession.


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19 Feb 2012, 6:04 am

CyclopsSummers wrote:
What's in a name? If your special interest is roses, they would smell as sweet if you'd call it an obsession.

:lol:

I like that.


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