I'm reviving this extinct thread because I came across it during a search and I've never seen anyone else discuss this issue before, certainly not with regards to asperger's/autism.
I've felt like I "change hats" my whole life. I'm very easily influenced by things I read or, moreso, watch. Particularly if I see a person whom I think of as a role model (either the actor/real person or the character if it's fiction), I tend to adopt that person's mannerisms, style of speech, attitude for a while until something else takes over or I forget about it.
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During this time I was actually surprised to see my own reflection in the mirror, as I half-expected it to be his instead.
That's exactly how it is for me. I sometimes start wondering if I look a little bit like the person and feeling like we must be "kindred spirits" or something. Then I wonder if other people are noticing the similarity and then I start to feel embarrassed
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I find it interesting that even though I'm female, most of my fictional role models over the years have been male.
Same here. I don't really have any female role models and haven't since puberty. I too am fairly androgynous and I guess I always think that females act too feminine and stereotyped to be role models for me. I have kind of a problem, though, in that I often find the fictional or real people whom I emulate are often also those I am attracted to. It becomes rather confusing.
(Oh, and Wilde is a good movie. Fry ftw... I will watch anything with him in it.)