For those who feel inferior

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You are actually better than the jealous haters. They may have better social skills but what good is it if they keep gossiping and forget to work while you are miles ahead of all of them. But don't give them back the bad feelings because once you get going nothing can stop you. For those who stim, habits are habits and there are nice NTs out there. For example all of my friends which for a person with AS is a high amount.

Keep strong and look at the positives of life. We only live once so don't let the jerks keep you down because it's their way of releasing their envy towards your talents.

[b]Good Luck.
~Anon
A proud Aspie.[/b]

Last edited by kill231 on 06 Jun 2012, 10:14 am, edited 1 time in total.

Why AS/HFA only?

Sorry for that I have changed the name so everyone can feel more secure and confident in themselves.

That is probably a good way to look at it...thing is though I never was miles ahead, the bullying and such got in the way and killed any self confidence I had. It appeared their gossiping and such did not really interfere with their ability to get decent grades, I imagine its not so different at jobs. Thing is Its hard to get going and lots of things can stop me.

and I don't really have any 'talents'........But hey its good you do as it probably helps you see the positives.

I am in the same boat as you. I have let people all my life make me feel stupid, ugly, etc to where I became just that...ugly and stupid. I think really it is all about changing the way you think and dumping out the people who make you feel inferior.

Yeah its like social ju-jitsu, self-defence. Keep them out of your life and things are generally way better in every sense. Physically, mentally, financially even.

Not all NTs stand there gossiping all day. If you do, I don't think the boss will be very happy. I've known people who go out at lunchtime on their own and don't bother to sit with anyone. I know others who try to work whilst eating their lunch (if they're allowed to). And I know people who are always ahead of me in their work, and sometimes I'm the opposite - I get too distracted even on to talking and then I don't do my work properly.

For the people who bullied us they will choke on their lies, swallow up their greed and suffer alone in THEIR misery if they don't stop. It will happen one day usually in the least expected ways.

Whoa take a chill pill, that sort of anger isn't very good is it? If somebody gave you grief so much that you hate them like that, then their tossers (sorry if I'm not allowed to say that) and not worth the amount of emotion you're throwing at them

The best form of revenge is to show them you've moved on and have made good of your life. When I was a child, my life was made quite miserable by a girl who would come by and take away anyone I was playing with, leaving me on my own. These days, I often see her in the playground, waiting for her child - she has no-one to speak to, not a single soul. This is not my doing, as I'd never talk about her to anyone. No-one knows we have a shared past. Nobody ever approaches her out of kindness and I choose to ignore her completely (I don't like her, why would I speak to her?). She sees me with my friends and also speaking to loads of other folk, in a large group and she can't seem to take her eyes off me. I know she's jealous. I can't deny I'm a little bit pleased at that.

It's a extreme version of what goes around comes around.

And things are good in moderation, not in extremity

I can think however I want but I still feel the same...and I do my best to not associate with such people, but it seems whatever damage it caused cannot really be un-done.