Gifted outside of your special interests?

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Omnicognic
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09 Jun 2012, 10:58 pm

It dawned on me that a few of the activities I am truly gifted in I don't like doing... at all. I'm very good at cooking, especially coming up with dishes on the fly with available ingredients. I also have a knack for fixing just about anything (I spend my days dreading my neighbors' knock at the door) that being said, I don't like doing either although I am very good at them. How about you? Talents that aren't interests?


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10 Jun 2012, 1:58 am

Sounds like you own some very marketable skills. That is great.

I'm skilled at making hammocks. It pays the rent.


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10 Jun 2012, 7:11 am

Omnicognic wrote:
It dawned on me that a few of the activities I am truly gifted in I don't like doing... at all. I'm very good at cooking, especially coming up with dishes on the fly with available ingredients. I also have a knack for fixing just about anything (I spend my days dreading my neighbors' knock at the door) that being said, I don't like doing either although I am very good at them. How about you? Talents that aren't interests?


You got me on cooking. I suppose I could with experience.

I can troubleshoot about anything. I fixed central air conditioners to motorcycles and engines. At 18 I applied myself to this with my first beater car. Had to -- do I like it? No, no passion, but I feel the need to know things. I feel it is a travesty with any vacuum in knowledge.



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10 Jun 2012, 7:24 am

My special interest is business. I wouldn't say I'm gifted at math because that sounds arrogant, but I'm pretty good for teaching myself at 18. Math comes natural, especially conceptual, abstract math. If I wanted to I could get a phd, but I'm not that interested. Maybe if I was taught math when I was young I would. My dream is to be an entrepreneur. Math seems to be a mean to achieve this goal. I'm also very good at video games, especially first person shooters. I'm left handed and research has shown lefthanders are better at processing stimuli, which helps in fps. However, I don't enjoy playing them anymore.



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10 Jun 2012, 8:39 am

I tend to see myself as gifted, in the sense that I seem able to achieve almost anything specific, once I set my mind to it, as long as I don't have to balance it with other priorities.

I may have wasted most of my life going for the wrong goals, but there wasn't much I set out to do, that I didn't do well. It works beautifully with most logical problems, and more recently even emotional problems are beginning to get sorted. I lock onto a problem like a heat-seeking missile, and I would have to be beaten off with a stick to stop me going that extra mile to get a result that's a cut above the average, a touch of class and near-perfection as an example to a slipshod world.

I don't know that it's exactly outside of my special interests though. I seem to MAKE a task my special interest if I can see that I can't get out of it. Once I realise that the task is about me, it's very hard to stop me.



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10 Jun 2012, 8:48 am

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I don't know that it's exactly outside of my special interests though. I seem to MAKE a task my special interest if I can see that I can't get out of it. Once I realise that the task is about me, it's very hard to stop me.


Lol I'm almost the same except I cannot seem to pass up something that I've been told I can't do. The problem is once I am on the home stretch to completion (once I know it will work) I lose interest and move on... leaving a trail of unfinished projects in my wake..


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10 Jun 2012, 9:33 am

I can definitely relate. For me, grammar rules, spelling, etc. are second nature to me. I always excelled at that and considered going into editing because of it. But I just do not enjoy it in the least. Science, on the other hand, is my passion and what I chose to pursue, even though it was much more difficult for me.



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10 Jun 2012, 9:53 am

Gifted should be something like top 5-10% of the population in your given field. Calling yourself gifted is obnoxious if you aren't. But then again this is an online forum and everyone thinks they are gifted. Most likely, you're not gifted, you're just above average. I'd would guess that about 10% of people on this forum are actually gifted. Just because you can do three digit multiplication, know calculus, can do an above average finger painting, have asperger's, have a skill, are self-absorbed, are intelligent, and can spell, doesn't mean you're gifted.



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10 Jun 2012, 10:30 am

I've considered myself a jack of all trades for some time now. I'm probably just about average academically according to Biz's criteria, I can fix most analog things, self-taught on several instruments as well as recording and engineering. I went from writing 10 lines of BASIC into the old Apple IIc to huge learning gap to where I just finished bolting on the last goodie to my Latitude c610. I tend not to get into the head side of my interests, I'll do anything that lets me work with my hands. I think if my neighbors were to describe me they might say I'm like 'Wilson from Home Improvement' Gifted? Maybe in the classic layman's definition, but as an aspie there are always areas I fall short


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10 Jun 2012, 10:49 am

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Gifted should be something like top 5-10% of the population in your given field. Calling yourself gifted is obnoxious if you aren't. But then again this is an online forum and everyone thinks they are gifted. Most likely, you're not gifted, you're just above average. I'd would guess that about 10% of people on this forum are actually gifted. Just because you can do three digit multiplication, know calculus, can do an above average finger painting, have asperger's, have a skill, are self-absorbed, are intelligent, and can spell, doesn't mean you're gifted.


gift·ed /giftid/Adjective: 1. Having exceptional talent or natural ability: "a gifted musician". 2. Having exceptional intelligence: "gifted students".

Lol How about "Special talents" instead?


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10 Jun 2012, 10:59 am

I am not gifted at anything. I just have a general talent in playing the piano, with ONE hand but can make timeless music using background rhythms and can memorize how I play each song (which lasts for about 2+ minutes like real songs, but I have to write down what rhythm and tones I use for each song). But it's not an obsession though, it's just a hobby I like to do, like how most NTs pursue their interests.


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10 Jun 2012, 11:45 am

Joe90 wrote:
I just have a general talent in playing the piano, with ONE hand


Ever play this?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0LBezQGLNo[/youtube]


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10 Jun 2012, 3:33 pm

Omnicognic wrote:
ToughDiamond wrote:
I don't know that it's exactly outside of my special interests though. I seem to MAKE a task my special interest if I can see that I can't get out of it. Once I realise that the task is about me, it's very hard to stop me.


Lol I'm almost the same except I cannot seem to pass up something that I've been told I can't do. The problem is once I am on the home stretch to completion (once I know it will work) I lose interest and move on... leaving a trail of unfinished projects in my wake..

8O That's me. Once there's no challenge, it's not fascinating any more. I research and develop my skills almost as an end in itself.



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10 Jun 2012, 5:15 pm

deltafunction wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
I just have a general talent in playing the piano, with ONE hand


Ever play this?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0LBezQGLNo[/youtube]


It doesn't sound that hard. Go look up Art Tatum if you want hard.



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10 Jun 2012, 5:19 pm

Atomsk wrote:
deltafunction wrote:
Joe90 wrote:
I just have a general talent in playing the piano, with ONE hand


Ever play this?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X0LBezQGLNo[/youtube]


It doesn't sound that hard.


I dunno, I can't play piano, I just thought that song was cool.

It was commissioned by someone who lost his right arm in WWI. And this guy was pretty picky with what he played.


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10 Jun 2012, 5:24 pm

deltafunction wrote:
I dunno, I can't play piano, I just thought that song was cool.

It was commissioned by someone who lost his right arm in WWI. And this guy was pretty picky with what he played.


That's pretty cool. I wasn't meaning any offense or anything, just was saying it doesn't seem terribly hard, to me at least.