analyser23 wrote:
I probably do have troubles with this due to the fact that when I talk to people, I give them too much detail! I do this to try to be helpful to others as I must subconsciously have always known how difficult I find it, hence I used to assume that everyone has trouble understanding this. I would tend to give my answer and then explain why I gave that answer. Although this can come across as clunky and people find me a little odd for doing it, I can't get past the fact that it is more helpful to do so than not.
It probably also stems from the fact that most people totally misread me and I want to try to reduce that as I hate it - people base their behaviours on their interpretations of who you are, so due to the fact that they are generally wrong about me, I hate the consequences of the incorrect behaviour that follows.
I agree, people tend to go by what they
think is correct, rather than what
is correct. It does get rather annoying lol.
btw: nice avatar, very clever lol