good kid or bad kid

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I would like to know, of how your behavior was like in school or shortly after school.
For me, s**t I was bad, I don't mean super evil but i was pretty messed up from 15 to 20 years old. I would skip classes cause I hating them,always did graffiti and broke things such as
buisness windows. I remeber one time I spit on another student with hfa ( didn't know he was until i got in trouble) and he chased me. I had to do trash pickup for the school with the v.p (
vice principal) . Pissed off hell of alot of teachers. Now I've had these friends during this time,
and we had these gay nieghbors who we would call ''butt'' and ''sniff''. ''sniff'' moved out and
''stratch'' moved in. We would always throw things out there house, including dog s**t. One time
my friend threw a rock at their house and something broke. we ran off and I believe we broke their outdoor light. after finish school, I went to differ try help the disable get jobs type
org and mouthed off to 3 of them and they all kicked me out.
Now Im 23 turning 24 next month. and Im pretty much a role model now ( a good person).
it was fun but not right. Please for any of you here under 15 PLEASE don't be a jerk, pick better friends, and use your mind.

I think for alot of folks with as/hfa or similiar condition who act bad,
do it because it makes them feel supieror. It's like look at me just
because I've have a disabilty doesn't mean IM a p**** and is not a risk taker.

OK, I'll Bite.

I was generally a good all around person. One time, some people at one school tried to hurt me, I got fed up and.... Well, let's just say they certainly remember me to this day. I should have been ready to do that later at another school. They all deserved it.

Anyway, I have generally been good. NO property damage, no garbage thrown, etc...

And yeah, people should pick their friends well. I once decided to try to have a friend help with a program I was writting so we could win a scholarship. He kept wiping out my software, and used the disk to brake into the univeristy computer. He later became world famous by working with Kevin Mitnick(A famous hacker and now a security consutant). Although we never finished that, a later winner did the SAME thing I wanted to do, and was trying to do! Our ideas were secret, and based on our ideas.

Peer presure is a BAD thing.

BTW after I posted this, I saw the second post you wrote. You are REALLY looking like a troll.

Steve

Good kid... sorta. In high school i was well liked by most teachers and students but that was because everyone basically gave me free reign. Some teachers didn't like me because i never did work in class (i never could see the point of getting good grades till AFTER i graduated :/). But for the most part everyone was good in high school so my only major problem was that I...

Got suspended once. I bought some alcohol too school, gave it too a mate of mine and he passed it on to another kid.

Kid in question was, not only mormon but also on antibiotics. He drank all the alcohol, then he threw up on the vice principal ... I got suspended for 5 days.

Sneaky. Mischevious. I didn't use drugs or sleep around or bully anyone, but in high school I was very bored and would doodle on my desks, write poetry in class, put my head down and shut my eyes, pull pranks on the teachers, that sort of thing. I cut lots of classes too, as I hated school, especially gym. I had an all around "screw it" attitude. The good kids didn't want anything to do with me, and I felt very isolated and alone. As an adult, I'm law abiding and try to be a good person. yes, kids, pick your friends carefully. The wrong ones can ruin your life. Once you're eighteen, if you break the law, you own it forever. If you feel lonely, like I did, try to ask an adult for help. Don't cut school. That was dumb of me.

I was a "saint" until about 16.Then my family moved to a new state and the only friend I could make was a guy who wanted sex.I went on the pill and snuck around to see him because my parents forbid our dating(his parents were divorced,they said).I was also called into the principles office for making out with him in the stairwell,many times.
The next summer my parents kicked me out of the house and I really cut lose.I started drinking and found "friends" in the party group.I actually hated any kind of destruction or cruelty to others but I did skip school because it was really cold and difficult to get to on my own.I drank and had sex with several people who said they liked me(NOT).I shop-lifted for 2 years because my parents only gave me $50. a month for "spending" money and that would barely cover food and no other basics(like clothes).I got caught for that and did some community service.

After college,I joined a group of "gutter punks".It was the first time I really fell under the influence I peer pressure.I really wanted them to like me and would do some minor illegal things to fit in but still not into breaking things and only stole from unlocked cars(car hopping).I did sleep in abandoned houses,which is technically tress-passing but it wasnt really hurting anyone.(They ended up tearing down all our squats.Since I have been sober,I have been Uber-law-abiding,which I believe to be my true nature.(except for my bunnies,which I am not supposed to have in this apt.oooops,what a rebel)

I was always a good kid. Rules are rules to me. But even I know they need to be bent or even broken every now and then

I was a good kid. About the worst things I've ever done were smoke some weed and cut a class here and there. I guess for some people that's probably super bad, but I kinda wish I had some more interesting stuff in my repertoire. I also did like troymclure and never did any schoolwork, and didn't realize how important it was until I graduated. It's funny, too, I just graduated last June, and practically the week after, I was like "s**t! Why didn't I just do my f*****g homework?

Meh...generally a good kid....but I have my moments.

I hate school but I don't.........a bit hard to explain.

Hmm really depends on your definitions of good and bad.

I rarely followed the rules or did what I was supposed to if I didnt feel like it but I was never malicious.

I just did stuff like skipping all my classes every day for 3 months and doing drugs hanging out at a friends house who was under house arrest and playing his guitar or Id wander off into the woods for a few days without telling anyone and just show back up when I felt like it like nothing happened (would drive my parents crazy because they would always start doubting whether or not they knew beforehand I was going somewhere) that sort of thing.

Some of it was illegal like the drugs and making explosives to set off out of boredom but nothing that ever really hurt anyone (ok so I did scare some kids who were mean to me a little as a warning a couple times but no injuries).

I was actually a good kid while growing up, even in high school. I never did drugs, cut class, or do any destruction to property. I had short-term relationships in high school, as I wasn't interested in sex at all, while that's all most boys wanted. I did bend some rules, as even I knew that some rules should be bent slightly.

I'd say I'm generally good but when it comes to my mom, I can turn from angel to devil on her right away if she says or does something I don't agree with. The same can go for teachers, but only the quacks rather than the nice, fun ones. Now when I was a little kid, I was pure terror. In second grade I decided to destroy everyone's rock projects because, "I just felt like it". I would also beat up other kids that teased me and make them bleed. I didn't live in the safest school district in the world so it was best to defend myself, even at age six. Also, when I was about four, I remember chopping the heads off of a lot of Barbie Dolls and even destroyed my best friend's once. Also, I always had to win, I always had to be the best, and things always had to go my way even if it ment removing someone from the picture. Heck, I'm still like that! lol I've changed a lot since then, in some ways better and some ways worse.

If I ever skipped a class in public school even once, my parents would have punished me real bad.

In school as I mostly good except I didn't do my homework much at all. In the 7th I had this friend Timmy who I sat next to and talked to in class enough to reduce my conduct grade from "Outstanding/Good" to "Satisfactory" for one or two quarters. I didn't pay a huge amount of attention in class (it was boring, although I didn't not pay attention) although this much of a problem because I noticed that if I timed when I raised my hand to answer a question then I never got into trouble for paying attention. I liked to read in literature because I could do accents and pretend I was acting out a part when everyone else would just drone on.

In recess from 3rd and part of 4th grade I sat alone bored. Part of the time I was hoping someone would pay attention to me, but nobody did. I was kind of pathetic honestly. I got a friend in the fourth grade, and another in the fifth and we did random things during the recess periods (sometimes joining in with others). Gradually I became friendly enough with other classmates (although not quite becoming what others would call friends) that they would talk to me. Eighth grade, especially towards the end of the year, was pretty fun (although compared to others I was a loner and I was absent a third of the year).

I did some things in school that I really regret. I was teased by a kid in the third and fourth grade, and I was happy that I later met him in High School briefly and we got along fine. But I teased a couple of people and really wished I hadn't. One was a girl I called fat and teased on my way home. I was being teased at this point too and doubtlessly that was part of the influence but there was no excuse. We later became friends. Unfortunately I never remembered of the incident (it happened twice) until after elementary school so I couldn't apologize. There was a second incident of me teasing in the seventh grade. I think the person I (and my friend) teased had a learning or other type of disability of some kind. He really just wanted to be our friend. I think I remember he got in trouble for conduct things but I don't remember that anything like that happening around me. He was very "geeky." I don't remember my exact behavior but I wasn't very nice I think. I wish I could give details but I really don't remember. I do remember that he asked to shake my hand when he left and "let bygones be bygones (my words)." I felt a strong urge that I had to do it so I did. Afterwards I felt embarrassment at having done it but I am very glad at having done it today.

When I was in alternative school there was some cases of saying not very nice "joke" like comments with a friend. Although I don't know if this really reaches the level of "teasing" I regret some of it, certainly.

I don't want to overestimate how "bad" I was. Generally people thought of me as "nice." But sometimes I did things that weren't really nice at all and seem somewhat stunning in retrospect.