Oh, she is defiantly narcissistic. Fancy car, clothes, dog. I get the feeling even if God sat down and talked with her, she would blow up at him, he would bring the wrath down upon her and they would both walk away pissed off and shaking their heads.
I guess I just answered my own question. People rarely respond well to criticize and it's worst when trying to point out negative behavior; be it alcohol, drugs, bullying, jealousy, greed--- no matter, all the same.
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If you have two options you have a delema.
If you have three options you have a choice.
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