You could get a weighted vest, they're easy to wear over t-shirts, or a weighted belt. I get the same processing and sensory issues, and I would say a shoulder weight helped most, but, in relation to your exact problem, I don't really have anything properly helpful to contribute. Sorry.
http://www.sensorydirect.com/
^ They do really nice weighted products for adults and kids if you're interested.
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