How long was he on it and what strength? XR, IR? As an adult I don't have as much issue with impulse control or intrusiveness, the extended 30mg dose I find does connect my brain wanting to be more organized with my body doing the job to that end more than anything else I've tried. Another side effect I recognize is more awareness; I don't feel so much in a bubble around other people. I don't have any experience with Vyvanse or Concerta so I can't help much there. As a non-stim Strattera did help with organization somewhat but it had a weird manic-y/ crash cycle.
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Let's go on out and take a moped ride, and all your friends will thing your brain is fried, but you can't live your life too dirty, 'cause in the the end you're born to go 30