larsenjw92286 wrote:
About a week ago, I started experiencing psychological stomach illness. I think this is because not everything is set in stone for me in Seattle.
So, my mom says this and myself, I find it very hard to believe.
When I wake up, why is it that I feel so much better? Or, why would you think so?
Sleep = Physical rest + psychological renewal. It's quite logical you should feel better when you've just had some sleep.
BTW, dreams are your "natural psychologist"--your brain sifting emotions and events of the day, putting them all away into neat little boxes. If something shows up repeatedly in dreams, you know you've been thinking about it a lot, and it might be an issue. (Of course, if that something is a special interest, then that's natural and definitely not a problem!)
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I am being the exact opposite of juvenile as you can think of. I am not joking. I don't know why Seattle is making me so "stomach-sick," especially since I get the feeling that Seattle has "missed me." It has just as much culture and is just as much of a melting pot as Wrongplanet is. With my close family members here, you would think the transition would be easy, but it really hasn't been for me!
Does anyone know why this is?
It's a transition. You're an Aspie. It's completely natural.
I mean, most of the things you used to know are gone; replaced by unfamiliar places, things, and even weather. That sort of upheaval--family or no family--is not easy when you are attached to familiarity, comforted by sameness.
It happens to cats... You move, your cat goes nuts, because he's attached to the old house. Even if you're there to comfort him, cats (like Aspies) are very location-oriented; and his location just changed drastically! It would be worse if his owners had changed, too; but it's pretty bad as it is. (Some cats are more easygoing.)
BTW, remember your stomach complaints may have originated in your brain, but they're still real. Whatever works on them, use it--antacids, rest, small frequent meals... whatever. As you adjust (which will unfortunately and inevitably take time), your stomach should settle.
Would getting and carrying around a map of your new surroundings help? It did wonders for me--I had mine laminated and it's still in my backpack! Also, your room contains a lot of familiar things; hanging out there when you're stressed should help. Don't withdraw completely, though; as you know, that's always a problem when an Aspie nests in his/her room.