What I did was Google local psychologists who specialized in treating patients with Autism Spectrum Disorders which led me to emailing a local therapist asking what I should do about my suspicions. She ended up calling me back and after talking for a few minutes, said she'd email me a list of places she typically refers her patients looking for assessment and to make sure I mention she referred me. At the top of the list (and the only place I remembered after accidentally perma-deleting the email *face palm*) was Ryther. Anyway, (trying to so hard to cut to the point), I ended up contacting Ryther (www.ryther.org), making an initial appointment where they deemed a full assessment was necessary and then going through my full assessment with them.
A few things;
-They typically treat children and teens but will also assess adults up to about 25. I'm not sure how set in stone this is or if it was a joke.
-I have Blue Cross Blue Shield Basic and the co-pay for the entire assessment was just $25. $25 and done.
-They have offices in North Seattle (closer to Northgate) and Bellevue; my appointments were always in Seattle.
-The waiting room there can be an absolute nightmare for Aspie's; running, screaming, yelling children at times...I was terrified, haha.
-I haven't received my diagnosis yet (appointment is Dec. 12th) and so I'm not sure what to say about the whole procedure. It's definitely very, very stressful; the assessment was 5.5 hours of testing with only a ten minute break. Think, mind-melting. Obviously, it's worth it but expect to go nearly insane if you also have ADHD. If I remember right, there were at least three or four other places she'd listed on the email so I'd do my research and find a place you're really comfortable with.