Board index › General Discussion › General Autism Discussion

Being bad...

Page 1 of 1 [ 5 posts ] 

Previous topic | Next topic

bumble
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 26 Mar 2011
Age: 49
Gender: Female
Posts: 3,073

19 Feb 2013, 4:22 pm

If (or when) you have gotten into an argument with someone who complained at you about doing something, that in the grand scheme of things, was actually a really minor thing and which should not really have been all that much of a big deal (it was just that they found it irritating), have you, after attempts to discuss things rationally and reasonably in order to find a resolution and end the debates failed because they refused to listen to your perspective, deliberately carried on with the so called annoying behaviour just to annoy the hell out of them?

My apologies for the run on sentence there!

This happens when I have to be concise sometimes lol



MakaylaTheAspie
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Jun 2011
Age: 29
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 14,565
Location: O'er the land of the so-called free and the home of the self-proclaimed brave. (Oregon)

19 Feb 2013, 4:26 pm

Mostly when it's with someone that really deserves it, yes. :lol:


_________________
Hi there! Please refer to me as Moss. Unable to change my username to reflect that change. Have a nice day. <3


nessa238
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 1 Jul 2011
Age: 59
Gender: Female
Posts: 3,908
Location: UK

19 Feb 2013, 4:43 pm

bumble wrote:
If (or when) you have gotten into an argument with someone who complained at you about doing something, that in the grand scheme of things, was actually a really minor thing and which should not really have been all that much of a big deal (it was just that they found it irritating), have you, after attempts to discuss things rationally and reasonably in order to find a resolution and end the debates failed because they refused to listen to your perspective, deliberately carried on with the so called annoying behaviour just to annoy the hell out of them?

My apologies for the run on sentence there!

This happens when I have to be concise sometimes lol


I've usually found another way to annoy them and sometimes at a later date



lostonearth35
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 5 Jan 2010
Age: 51
Gender: Female
Posts: 13,363
Location: Lost on Earth, waddya think?

19 Feb 2013, 5:15 pm

I haven't had anyone tell me I was being annoying for ages, and if they did I'd probably would stop doing it or not do it on purpose because I'd be really embarrassed. Of course when I was young and my older brother and I were still living at home, things were different. Practically everything I did annoyed him but then I'd usually try to stop so he wouldn't smack or punch me - not hard or anything, but if he wanted to and didn't care about our parents grounding him until he was 30 he could have really hurt me... he loved to show me all the time how much stronger and more agile he was than me. Great memories. :hmph:



Who_Am_I
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Aug 2005
Age: 41
Gender: Female
Posts: 12,632
Location: Australia

19 Feb 2013, 6:00 pm

Ha, yes. I am but human. :P


_________________
Music Theory 101: Cadences.
Authentic cadence: V-I
Plagal cadence: IV-I
Deceptive cadence: V- ANYTHING BUT I ! !! !
Beethoven cadence: V-I-V-I-V-V-V-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I
-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I! I! I! I I I