I take Celexa for my anxiety: although it dulls down the world quite a bit, I love the relief it gives me. If I forget to take it, there is a huge difference. It also has helped quite a lot with my perseveration/obsessive thinking.
From my own experiences and the experiences of others I know, meds are a bit of a trial and error process. It won't be likely that you'll find the one that works for you right away. You may have to switch meds or adjust the dose of one until you find out which med or meds are right for you.
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Given a “tentative” diagnosis as a child as I needed services at school for what was later correctly discovered to be a major anxiety disorder.
This misdiagnosis caused me significant stress, which lessened upon finding out the truth about myself from my current and past long-term therapists - that I am an anxious and highly sensitive person but do not have an autism spectrum disorder.
My diagnoses - social anxiety disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder.
I’m no longer involved with the ASD world.