Completing Tasks without instructions

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Do any of you have any issues with completing tasks without specific instructions and ways to get around this? When I need to do something, I like to be instructed very specifically beforehand on what I need to do so there's no doubt in my mind that if something goes wrong it's not my fault. I can't drive to places I've never been without someone else directing me. I hate having to complete tasks for school and such that leave things up to me to decide and organise because I don't have the ability to organise things by myself. I always have this fear that I won't know what I'm doing and I'll screw things up because 'common sense' stuff doesn't come very naturally to me.

I would be interested to hear if anyone else has this problem and strategies for overcoming it.

I also need very specific instructions.

For the car: get a GPS. It gives very specific instructions and will tell you how far until the next turn and will tell you several times when a turn is coming up and which way to go and how many miles. They are the BEST invention.

For everything else: www.wikihow.com
Wikihow is my resource for how to do countless things. It's the first place I check for detailed instructions on whatever.

Just look at some of the things they cover for how to do stuff at school.

Thank you very much for the reply. I often look up instructions on the internet for mechanical tasks I need to do, I'm always nervous about using it's advice for things involving social interactions though. The list mentions an article on how to ask for help though, I think that would benefit me a lot sometimes, usually with things I know I have the ability to do I'm reluctant to ask for help when I need it on the social side of things. I should probably ask my Mum for help on school stuff in the future.

I'm like that, too. And I'm sorry I don't think I can give you any solutions to the problem. I'm struggling myself.

One thing that I have become aware of is that I tend to be a perfectionist and have very high expectations whatever I try. Of course I often end up feeling that I failed. Other people don't seem to worry too much about the outcome. They just give things a try. They don't need detailed instructions because they think it's ok if what they have done is not perfect. They do what they can. So, I think it's a lot to do with your attitude. If I can adopt those people's more relaxed attitude, maybe I could try things more easily, making some decisions myself, without having to rely on detailed instructions.

I have zero practical skills, absolutely zero.

I would literally struggle to change a fuse because there are no instructions. I need things written out so clearly and in such basic form for me to be able to understand and follow them.

+1 to the GPS nod earlier. I have no sense of direction and get lost in the car all the time, since getting a sat nav my life has become 10 times easier

We all have some talents though.

I have practical skills, mechanical and fabrication, that's my spot.

Other things can be a struggle.

Patience and perseverance are needed, and research, as above.

Not nothing at all?

(Did you have the consult?)

Usually I have to have very clear instructions, but some things I can just watch and comprehend.

I use alot of routines to do things becouse once I know them I require no instructions. In meny areas I have the skill for the task however I need the instructions to avoid missing small things and to stop my over analitical brain from getting paranoid about what I am suppost to do, this is made much worse depending on if i'm doing something for me(my own organtic idea) or someone else who I may not share a vision with. Also without clear instructions of whats wanted I can get sidetracked very easy, more so when the task is open ended. GPS are great however I tend to never drive to new places as thats generally a bad idea, better then reading a map as a passenger though.