Obsessing

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I have come to realize that i obsess so much with the girls.I havent been in a serious relationship ever and so when i like any girl and there are possibilities about being with her icant get her ouy of my head for several months.Any advice on this?Has this happenedto anyone?

yeh it happened to me once, but with a boy, accept the obsession kind of lasted a year, its weird because i imagined going out with the person and for some reason fantasised about dancing with him, not a euphemism by the way , but once the obsession went i did not really care for him and felt no loss from the lack of interest.

as for advice, i didn't act on my obsession, but if you feel strongly about the person than why not, you will never know if you dont try, i regret not acting on my obsession, although it would not have ended well if the person i liked said yes and suddenly i lost interest, haha.

i think its normal for that kind of obsession in young people, im guessing you are quite young, all of my friends are obsessing about boys all the time, it can get a tad annoying when its all they talk about, i dont much get into all of that apart from the one person i obsessed over.

After I broke up with my girlfriend, I will admit that obsessed over her a little bit. I felt like I wasn't enough for her and she felt like I was stalking her. I apologized, it's better now, but I think I need to admit that we aren't meant for each other.

I think this is a trait of Autism. Obsession. I have been obsessed with someone who I met but not actually dated. I wonder how many of us got past that stage and dated , then quickly lost interest. I do most of the time if not always.