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How can we avoid this?
Well Jamesy, your 23 making you an adult so you have made through the potentially hard part as far is family is concerned if Callista's memorial page is any indecation, your more likely to be shown the door then murdered.
The best thing I think we can do for ourselves is to watch our actons and stay out of trouble, not draw any negitive attention, be as independent/self reliant is possible to cut down on the number of people we depend on and to incresse the flexibillity of that list of people. Thats the best I can do until sociaty fixes itself, i'm not waiting for that to happen that would just be a waste of time.
Be thankful your HFA/Asperger if thats what you are, I sure am! That way a we could fend off a court challange to remove our rights and appoint a guardian to legally make all of our desisions for us, the first step to potential abuse in my opinion becouse you will lose your right to remove yourself from the abusive situation. I'm so careful to keep my records clean partly becouse of this.