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30 Jan 2007, 5:03 am

All cristmas holidays i have been looking for friends with asperger syndrome, it has been driving me mad just trying to find someone my age to talk to. Anyway after the holidays i am back at school doing Year 12 to find three new people to the class. i dont know there names but hey its only the second say. so im in the multimedia room talking one of my friends and she told me one of those chicks has aspergers. i havent had that much communication with her though she smiled and waved at me on the first day. i am really looking ford to getting to know this chick and hopefully developing a relationship with her HOPEFULLY.
i just thought everyone should know my great news.
BTW- What should i do i mean how should i approach her? im ushally really good with these things but i just goy butterflys in my stomoch, hehehe



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30 Jan 2007, 5:44 am

I wouldn't get your hopes up about the relationship.

It's a bad idea to assume things. Good luck with being her friend, though.



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30 Jan 2007, 5:54 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I wouldn't get your hopes up about the relationship.

It's a bad idea to assume things. Good luck with being her friend, though.


I wouldnt get my hopes up either hehehe ill be happy just havin an aspie friend to talk to.



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30 Jan 2007, 9:24 am

Be her friend...if she wants more let her take the lead.
You might want to find out what her interests are. dont overload
her with your desire for friendship...take it easy.



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30 Jan 2007, 10:37 pm

voss749 wrote:
Be her friend...if she wants more let her take the lead.
You might want to find out what her interests are. dont overload
her with your desire for friendship...take it easy.


he hehe good idea ill try it thank btw i sat next to her in english. though we have seen each other before we know that but where it gonna drive me mad.



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31 Jan 2007, 12:07 am

Good luck mate 8)



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31 Jan 2007, 3:59 pm

yeah i hope you guys make friends



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31 Jan 2007, 5:12 pm

Just dont start building anything up in your head in case things dont work out :idea:



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31 Jan 2007, 6:56 pm

try this: go up to her and say "hi" :D sometimes it works... but i never tired it ;-)



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31 Jan 2007, 7:33 pm

You could start up a conversation by saying to her, "bummer about there being no duck season this year", or ask if she knows someone called RedMadge. She may be a member here 8O

But if she smiled and waved, she may not have AS.


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31 Jan 2007, 7:49 pm

BazzaMcKenzie wrote:
You could start up a conversation by saying to her, "bummer about there being no duck season this year", or ask if she knows someone called RedMadge. She may be a member here 8O

But if she smiled and waved, she may not have AS.


I kind of smile and wave. HEY, people expect it. Some stuff is now just HABIT. 8-(

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31 Jan 2007, 8:01 pm

SteveK wrote:
I kind of smile and wave. HEY, people expect it. Some stuff is now just HABIT. 8-(

I wave/smile in reply, but initiating the greeting/wave to someone you have not yet been introduced to?


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31 Jan 2007, 8:45 pm

Congrats on finding an Aspie. I'm sure there's no Aspies where I live.



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31 Jan 2007, 8:45 pm

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I'm sure there's no Aspies in Murray Bridge my age.


hello BOOOOOO hey i live 30km away from you it dont take me long to drive 30km to Murray Bridge and i am an aspie hehehehe



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31 Jan 2007, 8:46 pm

I meant people who actually live in Murray Bridge...



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31 Jan 2007, 8:53 pm

ok ok oh well ill just have to try making friends with this new chick she looks soo famillular, she looks like one of the chicks from the TV series Summerland umm the crazy one hehehe oh and she smiled at me again i know it means nothing but hey a friend is a friend.