what do you hate hearing the most from NTs?

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03 Oct 2013, 10:47 am

You don't look like you have Asperger's.


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03 Oct 2013, 10:56 am

You're using Autism as an excuse to not do____________
Pain is just an excuse to manipulate people (as in to get them to turn their music down or off)


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03 Oct 2013, 11:00 am

skibum wrote:
You don't look like you have Asperger's.


And they look you over like they expect you're hiding an extra limb



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03 Oct 2013, 11:35 am

-Don't aids yourself

-Yo man wanna smoke a blunt?



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03 Oct 2013, 11:47 am

''Stop moaning'' - when I'm trying to express my feelings over something that is making me feel anxious or agitated.

''You're like a 5-year-old''

''Can you just be quiet for a few minutes?''


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03 Oct 2013, 12:02 pm

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Maybe todays' NTs' are more elightened, but I used to CONSTANTLY hear "Well, you must be doing SOMETHING wrong for the kids to hit/pick on/ be mean to/ not want to be your friend.


No they pretty much still keep spewing out the same old rubbish.



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03 Oct 2013, 12:10 pm

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this afternoon i got: arrgh i hate your logic just accept it will you. that, now its later i :lol: but at the time i wnted to now "where it came from". im referring to a phrase my mum said earlier.

my mum had a red hat and she said ive got no knickers on. i said "eh? what :? 8O" "no its a just a saying ' if youve got something red on it means youve got no knickers a bit of a tart basically" "but how? is it cos of the red light district?" "and she said "what theheck? 8O :? no of course not oh i dont arrgh i hate your illogic logic. its just a saying. god you are so hard work sometimes you really are you know that. why do you have to disect everything".

i ddnt think i was disecting things :? :( i was just curious to know the origin so im off to google.

damn asd :evil: :roll: :wink: really makes you 'grr' at times.


No, there is nothing wrong with wanting to know where the saying comes from. I'd want to know the answer to that too.



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03 Oct 2013, 12:41 pm

"Don't you ever think of anyone besides yourself?" (Almost always, but not in the way they mean, apparently.)

"How can someone so smart be so stupid?"

"Just don't worry about it. There's no reason to worry right now."

"What's wrong?"/"Smile."/"Cheer up." (Said when I'm feeling perfectly fine).

"Just get over it and stop acting that way."

"You need to be around family." (They make it sound like I might keel over if I don't come to the next family gathering).

"You need to get out more, you'll feel better." (I feel fine, thank you).



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03 Oct 2013, 12:52 pm

You need to get out there and be social. (Said to me at a family gathering) Funny thing is I am pretty good at being social for an Aspie anyway and I actually enjoy it when I have the energy. But that day I was totally out of energy and was laying on the couch with a splitting migraine and could barely move.


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03 Oct 2013, 2:56 pm

"Everyone's a little bit autistic!" (I hate this as it trivialises what life on the spectrum is actually like!"

"Have a drink-it will give you more confidence!"

"How can you not like clubbing?" (Because nightclubs stink and are horrendously noisy and over crowded!)

"You just need to talk more!"

"Anxiety's normal". (Well, yes, in certain situations, it is but getting so anxious that you bite and chew your own skin and hit yourself on the head is not normal and I know that so please don't trivialise it).


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03 Oct 2013, 5:11 pm

NO, the worst is this. When you're having a (usually somewhat) normal conversation, and then you mention you're autistic. THen the other person makes a face or gesture, and all of a sudden they use smaller words and sometimes even streeetch out sommmme worrrds like I'm an idiot. The conversation automatically resets, and any intelligent things I previously said were obviously a fluke :evil:



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03 Oct 2013, 5:21 pm

Asperger96 wrote:
NO, the worst is this. When you're having a (usually somewhat) normal conversation, and then you mention you're autistic. THen the other person makes a face or gesture, and all of a sudden they use smaller words and sometimes even streeetch out sommmme worrrds like I'm an idiot. The conversation automatically resets, and any intelligent things I previously said were obviously a fluke :evil:

you COULD play around with such folk, as in when they start baby talking you even more baby talk back to them to see how far it will go :lol:



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03 Oct 2013, 6:52 pm

''Is not that hard, if everyone else can do it so can you''
''What is wrong with you, why cant you just be normal?''
''All you have to do is learn and remember. Look i will tell you again and listen this time''
''you're just lazy, thats what it is''
''Everyone is a bit autistic, im a bit aspie sometimes too, but I get over it and can do stuff, so can you.''
''Stop asking for attention''

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sigh......

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03 Oct 2013, 7:24 pm

Are you, like, into, like, computers and math and stuff?

You've just got to have fun.


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03 Oct 2013, 11:04 pm

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what do you hate hearing the most from NTs?


Any noise that comes from their mouths.



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03 Oct 2013, 11:23 pm

if you took better care of yourself you wouldn't be so autistic


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