bumble wrote:
skibum wrote:
When I am about to have a meltdown, "Just breathe." I find that most infuriating and extremely counterproductive.
I've had that one. Doesn't really work does it?
OMGosh, not only does it not work but it actually makes it worse. I know I have to breathe. I don't need them to tell me that and I feel like it's extremely condescending especially when it comes from people who have never had a meltdown in their lives.
Another great one, "Just get over it." I've been told this a lot when I react to Misophonic triggers apparently again from people who have no clue what the heck they are saying when they say something like that.
I also hate it when people tell me to buck up. Sometimes I feel like my entire life is bucking up. If I didn't and they truly saw the extend of how I feel a lot of the times, they would know that the times I can't buck up I really can't and if I could I would.
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Wreck It Ralph
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