Aggressiveness

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I ask, everyone of you, how aggressive can you be?

I can be pretty aggressive and short-tempered. When I get mad, I shout things, throw things, and even kick the walls. It's even gotten the point where I have gotten into fistfights with people, and even called them racial epithets.

The only suggestion I have to make is not to buy or have in your possession any firearms or other deadly weapons. The prisons are full of people who killed in a momentary fury, and then spend the rest of their ruined lives regretting it.

Good luck in dealing with your issues.

I am actually very peace loving when not too upset by things so rarely become aggressive. If I do become aggressive I am more likely to hit myself than anyone else. I will sometimes throw things but that is not very often. I am more noisy than anything else.

I do feel very aggressive towards people (especially bullies) before my period though. I think I am having PMS problems. I may need to pester my dr.

Well then its lucky it's so hard to get a firearm in the UK , some of my friends reckon I'm a ticking time bomb waiting to go off.

I used to be very aggressive in my teens and twenties. Then around late 20s-early 30s I kind of mellowed out some. Can still be that way from time to time but I consider myself to be more "assertive" rather than aggressive now. If I want something or someone really bad, I tend to just go for it. Have finally came to that point in my life where I don't want to look back at my life with regret for not trying to do something, but at least I can look at myself in the mirror and live with myself for at least trying...even if it does not work out exactly the way I wanted it to. Not trying to derail this thread just wanted to say that I do still have hot/strong emotions but have found ways to cool them down a bit.

I was aggressive between the ages 11 and 18 because I've learned from my own parents that it's okay to hit people who are smaller than myself when I was getting spanked. In fact, they stopped spanking me when I was 11, because they saw what it was doing to me. I've apologized to my kid sister for all the times that I hurt her when I first started experiencing mental health issues at the age of 23 in 1998. My aggression came out in a slightly more grownup way the second time when I was 32 back in the early months of 2007. I didn't cause anybody any physical harm, though I was wearing an image that said, "Don't mess with me!" That darkness fizzled out after Canada Day in 2009 and all that was left was the real me and the music that I really prefer. I've started piecing the pieces together and the real me is still growing strong, today. I have no aggression that shows in my appearance or actions, now.