Emylee wrote:
This next positive to keeping a boa as a pet may seem a bit weird. Do you ever feel anxious, and you feel this need to have pressure on your body? Sometimes when I'm having a meltdown I will lay down UNDER my mattress, just because the physical pressure makes me feel better. My boa gives me this when I hold him. He wraps around me nice and tight so he won't fall off me. It's one of the most comforting things I've ever experienced. I feel like keeping him is a gift every day. He makes my life better just by being himself. How many people can say they have someone in their life that isn't a burden, at least at some point. He never feels like one to me.
The bolded part is exactly why I will not handle any snake larger than a garden snake. Snakes can't control themselves. I'd be paranoid that if it wrapped around my neck, I'd be kaput! Plus, even non-venomous snakes can bite hard and leave dangerous bite marks.
I'm happy for you and all, but I'd rather have a pet on the same evolutionary step as me. Snakes are reptiles; that's two steps away (reptiles-->birds-->mammals). So while I'll get some enjoyment out of playing with a garden snake at a petting zoo, no snakes as a pet for me.