I wanna be Bones.
Or Ma Joad, from The Grapes of Wrath. I wouldn't want her life-- she had a HARD life. But I respect the hell out of her.
Or Ethan Hawley, from The Winter of Our Discontent. Another tragic life, another ultimately strong, respectable, and moral character by John Steinbeck.
Or Mack, from Cannery Row.
Hawkeye Pierce (M*A*S*H).
Novalee Nation, Where the Heart Is. Sister Husband would be an OK person to be, too.
Jackie Clay. Real person, staff of Backwoods Home Magazine.
Jason Faircloth, The Wisdom Hunter.
Carrie I-Can't-Remember, Storming Heaven.
Sam Vimes, from Terry Pratchett's Discworld books.
While we're on that subject, Tiffany Aching and/or Granny Weatherwax.
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"Alas, our dried voices when we whisper together are quiet and meaningless, as wind in dry grass, or rats' feet over broken glass in our dry cellar." --TS Eliot, "The Hollow Men"