You have listed a lot of autistic traits. Without a degree in psychology I can't diagnose you. Without observing, testing you, seeing your childhood records and questioning people who know you well I can't give you an informed option.
I can welcome you to wrong planet and think until you are of legal age to get a diagnosis you can and should vent, discuss and get advice on how to deal with your autistic traits here at Wrong Planet.
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“Self Acceptance is a process not a performance”
“You are autistic enough. And you always have been”
Professionally Identified and joined WP August 26, 2013
DSM 5: Autism Spectrum Disorder, DSM IV: Aspergers Moderate Severity.