Does anyone else have a problem with writing?

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Does anyone else have a problem with crafting messages or composing essays are any other type of expressive writing? This has always been my weakest subject in school, I either scraped by with a D or completely failed my English classes in high school if it has a focus on writing. I can never seem to get my thought written out in a way i feel comfortable with. It can take me an inordinately large amount of time to craft a simple text or post. It's very frustrating because I usually know what idea I want to communicate but I struggle to figure out how. I'm kind of afraid to be misinterpreted.

I want to post here more often but I usually see someone else express exactly what I want to say far better than I ever could or I lose my response the moment I try to write it down. If it isn't that then I just get really self conscious that my idea will be ridiculed (I know consciously that it shouldn't bother me but I still feel embarrassed.) or misunderstood. I trying to get better at this but it is so hard.

your writing in this post is clear and good.

Most likely I spent 2x as long on writing assignments compared to others in my class. In some instances it may have been far longer. Writing, editing, writing more, erasing and starting from scratching, writing, more editing, etc. was very common. The concept of being misunderstood bothers me a great deal too. I also worry that people won't like me.

I have the same problem. That is the main reason why I post here so infrequently.

Yes! Over and over, erasing, writing, going over single words/expressions again and again. It takes forever.

Yeah. Sometimes I can't figure out how to say something or what I write doesn't adequately express what is in my mind.
And someone always comes along and says it much better anyway.
I can't write walls of text in a stream of consciousness sort of way. My brain doesn't work that way.

I too spend a great deal of time just rereading, rewriting, editing, and (seemingly) endlessly mulling whether the words and ideas are getting my message across. Heck, just thinking of words and ideas in the first place is usually the hardest part. And I know for a fact the whole process takes me A LOT longer than the average neurotypical...my husband gives me a hard time about how long it takes me to craft a text or an email.

Handwriting is even more torturous, since you can't just hit "delete." Ironically, my handwriting (printing & cursive) is considered very neat, but it comes with an arduous amount of effort. My handwriting is one of 2 extremes: illegible (when I write fast), or beautiful (when I write and re-write, slowly).

Even writing what should be a quick memo on, say, a sticky note often turns into a multiple throw-it-away-and-start-over session...excruciating, at times! Forget hand writing letters...I do it, but it is almost always a much longer than normal process.

For the record, I can usually get a message written and posted on these boards relatively quickly, and I chalk that up to the fact I'm writing about things I know very, very well AND am very personally interested in.

I have a big problem with writing. I got a low C in my English Language GCSE and D in English Literature. I sometimes spend half an hour writing a reply to a topic on WP, and then delete everything.

I had no idea this was such a common problem. Usually, I'm pretty good when it comes to writing. English was my strongest subject in high school, and I often got flawless scores on my papers.

I'm a lot lazier on the internet, but on professional things like essays I usually put a lot more effort in them. I just start writing, and go back and patch it up later. Sometimes, if I procrastinated like crazy on an assignment and have to go all-out on it in less than an hour, then I don't do any editing at all and just throw it together.

I guess...it might just be practice. I like doing it, because expressing my thoughts through written words has always come naturally to me. I've had to work at it a lot to make it look nice, however.

It also helps if you like what you're writing about. If you do an essay on the 48 different ways you can cut a piece of paper and it doesn't happen to be your special interest, good luck with that.

I like writing. I've always been good with spelling and punctuation, and I enjoy writing stories, although my stories are only basic. I do struggle with writing stories similar to the ones you read in books. My stories are more basic diary-form but in third person . I am writing a scary story about a girl that works in a care home but something strange happens where all the staff and residents just mysteriously disappear except for this girl, and she walks around the home wondering what's happened, then all these little spooky things happen, and she tries to get out but it's all locked up, and she feels trapped with all these hauntings going on round corners and so on. It's supposed to make the reader feel panicky themselves, but I can't word it good enough to give the reader that effect. It's just turned into another basic diary-form story.

Yes, I have that problem, too, although I have improved over the years. I always struggled with both reading and writing at school (in my first language). Not that I couldn't read or write at all but I was extremely slow in reading and I just didn't know what to write. I did very well in grammar but that was the only component of the language subject that I enjoyed.

Now I try to organize the ideas and put them in a logical order. That usually works. I can write paragraphs that other people can understand. Still, writing is not my strength. I admire some WP posters for their very well-written posts. I wish I could write like them.