Shep wrote:
To be honest, if there's a way to "get over" the touching issue, I'd love to hear about it. Repeated exposure hasn't worked in my entire 24 years of living, and I'd really like to be able to touch family members without having to wipe my pants afterwards.
I'll try to contribute my pool of knowledge / experience. For me, if I'm not touched for like... months then it all goes away for the most part. I'm much less sensitive to it because it resets. If I'm touched more and more then I'm more and more sensitive to it. This REALLY sucked for me up until about 8ish months ago because my family (my dad in particular) tried to desensitize me by touching my in the sides, neck, etc. It made it worse and worse and worse. I think it's because I adamantly explained to my mom (not my dad because he truly doesn't understand me) that for me, touch sensitivity has a snowball effect. I suspect that she told my dad because I haven't been tickled or whatever for awhile now.
tl;dr avoid touching... that might help with sensitivity.
In my post
over here people say that swinging and rocking help. I honestly haven't taken the time to implement it but maybe you will.
You could also just be very serious when telling people to not touch you. If someone touches me once I'll nicely tell them not to because I don't like it / am sensitive to it. If they do it again I'll ask them to stop in a more serious tone. If they do it again then I'll give them a death glare and tell them to stop.
As far as noise sensitivity goes- I try to keep a pair of earplugs in my pocket especially when I'm know that I'm going to be in a loud environment. Other than that it's best to isolate yourself and leave the situation but of course that's not always an option.
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