Crying a lot and not being able to figure out how to make a sandwich doesn't mean you're not strong. It just means you're really, really, really upset right now.
I'll skip the platitudes and just tell you that, to have gotten this far, you're one tough Vicky.
Candles lit and prayers said.
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"Alas, our dried voices when we whisper together are quiet and meaningless, as wind in dry grass, or rats' feet over broken glass in our dry cellar." --TS Eliot, "The Hollow Men"