EzraS wrote:
Mine sure isn't. people don't always recognize it as autism, but they can easily tell I have something. Those who know about autism pick up on immediately.
I think it's hidden for the above reason: most people don't know what it is but they know something is "off". Most often, especially on the lighter end of the spectrum, people think it's shyness, rudeness, or mental illness. Often, I think it's one of those things that isn't seen/recognized unless the observer knows what they are looking at. Kind of like how the native peoples in the New World may have seen the sails of the European ships and couldn't describe them with any other words besides "clouds" or how native peoples living in dense jungles their whole lives can't understand or describe distance when they first are exposed to flat plains or grasslands. Sometimes people have to have seen autism before and known it before to see it in another person.
This is how a lot of people "fly under the radar", in my opinion. They are invisible because the people around them don't know what they are seeing.
EzraS, you seem to hit the nail on the head, as usual