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conundrum
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13 Feb 2015, 2:59 am
conundrum wrote:
Greenhat wrote:
Not only do people talk to me when I'm reading, but they'll cover the page with their hands, scream in my ear, insult me, and then, if I still don't respond, tell me how rude I'm being. Reading is an activity that broadcasts that you are busy! Ignoring someone generally means that you don't want to talk! Why is this so hard to understand?
Sounds like these people never learned basic concepts of politeness when they were kids: "don't interrupt", "wait your turn", "keep your hands to yourself"....
Am I just getting old, or are such things no longer considered to be important?
Whenever someone needs attention they loose every ounce of respect for others.
13 Feb 2015, 7:03 am
goofygoobers wrote:
Zajie wrote:
elysian1969 wrote:
Zajie wrote:
Sometimes some NTs and their behaviors make me convinced that I'm living in an enviroment where the stronger tears off the weaker for fun
Some of them do take great delight in capitalizing on the weak. My oldest sister was (and still is to a degree) like that. When I was growing up I could always count on her to beat the living daylights out of me when the adults weren't looking. She knew I was easy to catch and pound on because I always fell when I tried to run.
I have to wonder too about the lack of empathy I see in a good number of NTs- many of them show far less consideration for the rights of others than they could, or should. Then again, I'm beginning to believe a good portion of the population has been/ is being raised by wolves.
Some of them tear off the weaker by using them and making use of the 'weakness' of that person for inconvenient reasons, I think it's unfair, there's this girl in class who talks a lot and gets hated about it because she's fat and doesn't know how to dress- she gets bullied about it and not even teachers like her, there are people more talkative than her and more annoying but I guess no one hates on them for that because they have the qualifications of being 'stronger', I really hate when people do that to others
I agree with this and I think most people's behaviors is the product of whatever raised them
I remember in middle school when kids would make fun of me for some of the dumb things I said out of social skills problems, but they weren't exactly mature or geniuses.
Another thing I think is rude is when people take things from you without asking. I remember getting mad at this one girl in my 8th grade science class for just randomly taking school supplies out of my pencil bag without asking for permission.
I don't like talking in front of others too much because of that so I only would talk like I want in front friends, people in school tell me that I'm always too lazy and that its an annoying thing to them but I don't see why I should change because they find it annoying since I also find them annoying lol
That kind of behavior is so rude I really don't like it, I remember last time someone did that to me I got angry and I shouted at them then they returned what they took lol
13 Feb 2015, 7:24 am
Zajie wrote:
goofygoobers wrote:
Zajie wrote:
elysian1969 wrote:
Zajie wrote:
Sometimes some NTs and their behaviors make me convinced that I'm living in an enviroment where the stronger tears off the weaker for fun
Some of them do take great delight in capitalizing on the weak. My oldest sister was (and still is to a degree) like that. When I was growing up I could always count on her to beat the living daylights out of me when the adults weren't looking. She knew I was easy to catch and pound on because I always fell when I tried to run.
I have to wonder too about the lack of empathy I see in a good number of NTs- many of them show far less consideration for the rights of others than they could, or should. Then again, I'm beginning to believe a good portion of the population has been/ is being raised by wolves.
Some of them tear off the weaker by using them and making use of the 'weakness' of that person for inconvenient reasons, I think it's unfair, there's this girl in class who talks a lot and gets hated about it because she's fat and doesn't know how to dress- she gets bullied about it and not even teachers like her, there are people more talkative than her and more annoying but I guess no one hates on them for that because they have the qualifications of being 'stronger', I really hate when people do that to others
I agree with this and I think most people's behaviors is the product of whatever raised them
I remember in middle school when kids would make fun of me for some of the dumb things I said out of social skills problems, but they weren't exactly mature or geniuses.
Another thing I think is rude is when people take things from you without asking. I remember getting mad at this one girl in my 8th grade science class for just randomly taking school supplies out of my pencil bag without asking for permission.
I don't like talking in front of others too much because of that so I only would talk like I want in front friends, people in school tell me that I'm always too lazy and that its an annoying thing to them but I don't see why I should change because they find it annoying since I also find them annoying lol
That kind of behavior is so rude I really don't like it, I remember last time someone did that to me I got angry and I shouted at them then they returned what they took lol
She thought I had something to hide because I wouldn't let her get into my pencil bag. It's a matter of respecting other people's belongings and personal space. It would be like if someone asked me if I had something to hide if I got mad at them for looking at my underwear and taking a souvenir.
13 Feb 2015, 2:40 pm
goofygoobers wrote:
Zajie wrote:
goofygoobers wrote:
Zajie wrote:
elysian1969 wrote:
Zajie wrote:
Sometimes some NTs and their behaviors make me convinced that I'm living in an enviroment where the stronger tears off the weaker for fun
Some of them do take great delight in capitalizing on the weak. My oldest sister was (and still is to a degree) like that. When I was growing up I could always count on her to beat the living daylights out of me when the adults weren't looking. She knew I was easy to catch and pound on because I always fell when I tried to run.
I have to wonder too about the lack of empathy I see in a good number of NTs- many of them show far less consideration for the rights of others than they could, or should. Then again, I'm beginning to believe a good portion of the population has been/ is being raised by wolves.
Some of them tear off the weaker by using them and making use of the 'weakness' of that person for inconvenient reasons, I think it's unfair, there's this girl in class who talks a lot and gets hated about it because she's fat and doesn't know how to dress- she gets bullied about it and not even teachers like her, there are people more talkative than her and more annoying but I guess no one hates on them for that because they have the qualifications of being 'stronger', I really hate when people do that to others
I agree with this and I think most people's behaviors is the product of whatever raised them
I remember in middle school when kids would make fun of me for some of the dumb things I said out of social skills problems, but they weren't exactly mature or geniuses.
Another thing I think is rude is when people take things from you without asking. I remember getting mad at this one girl in my 8th grade science class for just randomly taking school supplies out of my pencil bag without asking for permission.
I don't like talking in front of others too much because of that so I only would talk like I want in front friends, people in school tell me that I'm always too lazy and that its an annoying thing to them but I don't see why I should change because they find it annoying since I also find them annoying lol
That kind of behavior is so rude I really don't like it, I remember last time someone did that to me I got angry and I shouted at them then they returned what they took lol
She thought I had something to hide because I wouldn't let her get into my pencil bag. It's a matter of respecting other people's belongings and personal space. It would be like if someone asked me if I had something to hide if I got mad at them for looking at my underwear and taking a souvenir.
I agree and that person wanted to take things from me for a project because I had the things lol like go get your own things
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