What operation? Cochlear implant?
SteelMaiden wrote:
Is it possible that I was either:
a) delayed in speech due to being deaf, and not autism
That is possible.
It's also possible you had speech delays due to both autism and being deaf, in combination (i.e. your speech delays might have been still there but different or less severe if you had only one of the issues instead of both).
SteelMaiden wrote:
b) actually not deaf but just not reacting to my environment (a sort of autistic "completely detached from the world and in own world" sort of thing)?
That seems unlikely because there are ways to test hearing that don't rely on behavioral response to sound, such as Auditory Brainstem Response which can be done while someone is asleep or under anesthesia...and I'm guessing that doctors would want to be absolutely sure that someone was deaf before performing any kind of surgery to make them hear.
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