I'm so upset

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I feel as if I'm always misunderstood by people. Whenever I go I will always have a problem with someone or have the majority of the people avoid me or gang up on me. Even if I am "friendly". I can't read or put out body language. I can't change my tone of voice. It hinders relationships with everyone- people are always mean to me. I can't make friends and I can't find a boyfriend. I'm so frustrated and sad. I can't seem to fix it. Can somebody help me? I'm so sad today.

I'm sorry you're sad today, and that you feel like everything is futile.

I wish I knew you in person, so I could help you better.

What I would do: just give yourself pleasure by indulging in your Special Interest.

High school is hard. Do you have any interests you can turn to?

I can't give you advice as I have exactly the same problem. At least I can say that I fully understand your frustration and sadness.

I think you bring out the nasty side of all nasty people. So in a way it's good that you know who's rotten inside straight away.

I'm in college!!

Sorry about what you're going through. The same things happen to me. Some people target me and are disrespectful towards me even though I wasn't anything but nice to them. I just try to avoid these kind of people as much as possible.

Sorry about that. I thought since your profile said age 15 (not 45) that might be accurate. Guess that was a mistake.

What do you like doing?

Sorry you're having a tough time. I had the same things happen to me, unfortunately. But I guess I'm a bit wiser as I've grown older. Just avoid people that target you for no reason, they're nothing but hooligans and riff-raff. The right people will come along.

I think your best defence against being exploited by other people, is to study very hard at college and the achieve the highest level of education you possibly can.

At some point in time the wheel will turn and people will start appreciating you for your academic achievements and get to know you better as a person. Please don't stop trying to be friendly to others because not everybody will respond negatively towards you and I'm sure there's at least one person out there who would love to have you as their girlfriend.