When will neurodiversity finally be accepted?
When you make a friend, you could educate that friend. Don't just do it out of clear air, though.....do it at an appropriate time--when you feel like you're going to have a meltdown, for example (not during the meltdown).
I think neurodiversity is slowly becoming more accepted--but the progress of this acceptance is not fast enough.
No, while the conceptualization of Neurodiversity (not in the group identity sense) has nurtured the contributions that such neurodivergents (autistics, savants, dyslexics, synesthetes, twice exceptionals and the extraordinarily gifted) have illustrated as well as spontaneity from neurotypical conformism (usually in the minds of pseudo-nonconfromist aspie supremacists who uphold a staunch persecution complex); people will soon realize the incessantly deplorable implications that collective identity politics (in all of its forms) has had on the culture war (Collectivists: traditionalists vs secular progressives – VS – individualists ), the individuality and free will of one’s self, the victim-hood mentality, and ability to resist postmodernist groupthink. Once people have assimilated to embrace voluntary association (the only way to stop the culture war) and repudiate collective ideological-isms, the terminology will probably have infinitesimal influence on society other than volitional means. Just imagine if the autism-vaccine hypothesis was proven in the foreseeable future (I highly doubt it of course), the concept of neurodiversity would ineluctably fall into insignificance and its adherents would face the utmost insurmountable prejudice society would ever knew.
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I grew up in an era where not only the idea of gay marriage but the idea of a Transgender celebrities was not only inconceivable, but people who were not heterosexuals got thrown in jail for doing what comes naturally.
Lavender scare
Lets change the wording a bit
"Autism (and by implication Autistics themselves) are constantly referred to not only as a disease, but also as an epidemic". Welcome to 2015.
But the mainstream thinks about LBGT in a radically different way these days so I can't say no change will ever happen for neurodiversity.
But these days as far as ND acceptance for every step forward we seem to be taking one step backwards.
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It's not that simple. Most normal people think that autistics are literally lunatics. Few NTs are aware of the existence of mild ASDs(Asperger's, HFA). Aspies are probably the most obscure minority that has ever existed.
Sexual diversity is becoming more and more acceptable, but neurodiversity will never be recognized or accepted.
Unlike LGBT, autism is a complex difference that normal people can't understand. But most importantly, being an Aspie causes you to be in conflict with society all the time. A gay man can be socially accepted, but an Aspie man can't.
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I feel like accepting neurodiversity would require a nearly-complete overhaul of how society works, since society is currently catered towards NTs. And I just don't see a societal overhaul ever happening, sadly.
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In terms of "When", that varies initially within the culture's acceptance to difference and the majority's overall knowledge.
If the culture itself is very accepting AND it's majority educated enough: neurodiversity has a good chance to become a part of their norm.
If the culture itself is accepting but lack of knowledge: there will be still less problems in a long run, yet still not yet a part of the norm. The acceptance part might be harder if one refuses to question AND accept of that answer.
If the culture itself is not accepting but do have the knowledge: the problems might be even bigger than their ignorant counterparts; as prejudice are likely be invoked or worse. But has better chance of transcending to acceptance if given enough amount of tolerance.
If the culture itself is not accepting and no knowledge about neurodiversity: like the usual things what neurodivergents has to bear with the neurotypicals' assumptions.
Please do spot a gap on this one.
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It's not that simple. Most normal people think that autistics are literally lunatics.
I don't know anyone who believes autism is insanity caused by the moon, but maybe we move in different circles.
Sexual diversity is becoming more and more acceptable, but neurodiversity will never be recognized or accepted.
Unlike LGBT, autism is a complex difference that normal people can't understand. But most importantly, being an Aspie causes you to be in conflict with society all the time. A gay man can be socially accepted, but an Aspie man can't.
There are more obscure minorities. I think it will be much longer before schizophrenics are accepted in society, or Downs syndrome, Williams Syndrome, or at the other end of the scale, non-practising paedophiles.
We're starting from a much better position than LGB people (I leave out the other letters because they are still to gain mainstream acceptance), because it isn't illegal to be autistic in most countries. Our disadvantage, as I see it, is that we're inherently much more likely to be much worse than most people at relating to others and influencing opinion, organising campaigns, meeting together in groups... despite that, I think we'll see real progress during our lifetimes.
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It's not that simple. Most normal people think that autistics are literally lunatics. Few NTs are aware of the existence of mild ASDs(Asperger's, HFA). Aspies are probably the most obscure minority that has ever existed.
Sexual diversity is becoming more and more acceptable, but neurodiversity will never be recognized or accepted.
Unlike LGBT, autism is a complex difference that normal people can't understand. But most importantly, being an Aspie causes you to be in conflict with society all the time. A gay man can be socially accepted, but an Aspie man can't.
Not knowing anything about us puts us in a better position then the 1950's when homosexuality was known but despised and feared.
I think you are underestimate how really difficult it was to pass as a heterosexual even with great NT social skills. You had to get married to a member of the opposite sex in order not to arouse suspicion. Want sex with a member of your own sex? You had to go to a public bathroom or gay bar (which were frequently raided) to meet a stranger and take whatever risk involved not only in meeting a stranger but hope like hell you do not get arrested and have your name and picture published in the paper under the list of "deviants". Keep up that macho front at all times. And I mean "macho". In the pre "political correctness" era that meant making up sexual conquests with women to talk about, don't act uninterested when the boys went out to a "gentlemen's club" make sure you also laugh along when they made crude, juvenile 'fag" and "queer" jokes and like today better know all about your local sports teams. Drinking culture in and out of work was huge then. Holding your liquor was considered a sign of manhood. Liquor lowers inhibitions causing a real danger of saying something about your true self.
I am hetrosexual and got bullied not because of my "aspieness" as it was unknown but because they assumed it meant I was gay. Even a few gay people tried to solicit me for these reasons. When some found out I was not gay they started shaking, crying, begging me not to tell anyone. This was not the 1950's but the 1970's and 1980's. The macho culture at work I described above was still pretty much still in effect then
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I don't mean anything extreme, just people understanding that not everyone can help their trouble with social skills and not blame a neurodiverse person for something they can't help. Is that too much to ask of society? I'm tired of feeling like a horrible person for having trouble with social skills and being treated like dirt for it.
I don't mean anything extreme, just people understanding that not everyone can help their trouble with social skills and not blame a neurodiverse person for something they can't help. Is that too much to ask of society? I'm tired of feeling like a horrible person for having trouble with social skills and being treated like dirt for it.
Oh, okay. Well, that'll still probably take a while, since us neurodiverse people have yet to really organize and fight for equality. We need a leader who's good at giving speeches, like Martin Luther King, Jr. did for the Civil Rights movement.
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Krafty is right about more information being out there being a key. That is true of anything unknown or misunderstood. I think, unfortunately, the fact that NTs look for and need an emotional reciprocation and style of communication which isn't very natural to Autism/Asperger's folks is what the main difficulty might be. The question is how to make something very alien to an NT seem normal and equal in its own right. Particularly when it's not something they feel. You can explain the pain you feel at loud noises or eye contact, but most will not be able to relate to this directly, even if they want to understand.
Arguably, human philosophy, religion, politics, and thought are shaped very much by the fact that there is no species or being with more power pushing us around. This can give us delusions about what we are and our importance in reality. Within humanity, you have this neurodiverse subset, and many NTs may understandably find this whole different perspective difficult to deal with because they don't understand it and it implies that they should change their view of themselves and what they know to be human. Think of the Wrong Planet phrase--imagine of aliens came here which had very different abilities and a wholly different way of communicating. That could scare any of us. So the more accurate information out there, the better. And, as Krafty said, educating what friends you can is probably the best thing, too. The more people that see you as a person, the better. That's all it's really about. Especially since NTs enjoy emotional bonding. I've often felt that some of the resistance to homosexuality is some fear on the homophobe's part that they will have to conform to that preference, when in fact homosexuals are not asking that. Likewise, many NTs may irrationally fear that a society that seems to be filling up with neurodiverse will expect those NTs to change, when the truth is neurodiverse people are probably just looking for understanding and acceptance.

