Perspective then Change

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For the first time I saw Nomaken's avatar in full glory (or gory?). My computer has ads and animated avatars disabled. I have heard other WP users discussing animated avatars and in particular, Nomaken's and how they described its uniqueness. I always thought that was in regards to that moment before the kiss. Now all of a sudden I'm on a different computer and: my god it's eating her! Isn't that the nature of the universe? We can look and read the same thing at two different points in our lives and react differently. I mean, does this allow us an opportunity to initiate a change? You might not understand what I mean about Nomaken's avatar, realistically, this thread is only loosely about that subject. I guess underneath I'm asking:

"With a new point of view, how do we change?"

This rut i'm stuck in is starting to eat me alive.

I've had a film job offer again. I immediately accepted it. It isn't till August but I said to her, "I am accepting this offer now. Don't let me weasle out of it later."

If I make a mistake, I'm just going to run with it from now on. I'm letting the small stuff consume me.

It depends on several things. But first of all, i am assuming that if a new perspective exists then it is possible to come to peace with it. You go about changing by experiancing the change. The more you experiance the more you get used to it. After a time it is no longer a change but the proper, familiar thing. You can figure out how to change by making really really obvious conclusions about a new situation that are so simple some part of you goes, "It must be more complicated than that." But after reviewing the situation, think about what you want, and how courses of action in light of the new perspective will better serve what you want. Sometimes you feel odd, and lost when making a change. As if you aren't allowed, or you need to get permissing first. But that will pass as you experiance it more and more.

NT's learn a whole bunch of crap(and alot of it counter productive) by effortlessly picking it up from observation but there is some stuff they just needed to f**k up to have it pointed out to them.

Also, the character on the left is a girl, and the character on the right is a guy. They're from a series where were paired at one time. Really bad choice, but makes for a cute scene.

Also, although no one asked, i take great pride in my avatar. It's weirdness identifies me. I am proud of my weirdness. And i love expressions like this GIF file because they express my identity in images what i could never do with words.