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DevilKisses
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11 Aug 2015, 8:10 pm

One funny NT trend I've been noticing lately is people in their 20s bragging about being into "childlike things" such as Disney and coloring. They also brag about not wanting to be an adult and preferring Netflix to socializing. It's like they're trying to act like aspies. With the exception of Disney and coloring these are the things I hate about myself. No clue why NTs act so proud of that stuff.


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11 Aug 2015, 11:21 pm

I'm 40 and I love Cut The Rope and the main Sweet Pea character, Om Nom.

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Than again I also like stuff from my parents generation such as The Kinks, The Beatles and vintage TV sets, so I guess that balances everything out.


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12 Aug 2015, 12:53 am

I think it's just their attempt at standing out and being "different". The average, stereotypical 20-something is into parties, sex, and alcohol, so in an attempt to make themselves feel unique or special, kids have started claiming that they're "not like all those party animals: I like to stay home in my blanket fort and watch Disney." I don't really get it to be honest; I like what I like because I like it, not because it is or isn't cool, or will make me fit in or stand out.


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12 Aug 2015, 1:05 am

StarTrekker wrote:
I think it's just their attempt at standing out and being "different". The average, stereotypical 20-something is into parties, sex, and alcohol, so in an attempt to make themselves feel unique or special, kids have started claiming that they're "not like all those party animals: I like to stay home in my blanket fort and watch Disney." I don't really get it to be honest; I like what I like because I like it, not because it is or isn't cool, or will make me fit in or stand out.


Maybe some of them actually sincerely don't enjoy that particular lifestyle..If I like things I typically think they are 'cool' but that is my opinion its just the word I've always used for a lot of things i like doesn't nessisarly match up to what society or the masses would say is 'cool'. IDK I am not much into partying a whole lot...I'd prefer camping or just hanging out outside and maybe cooking some food over a fire of course might enjoy a couple beers and maybe some cannabis with that.


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12 Aug 2015, 1:16 am

You're probably right about that Sweetleaf. I for one certainly don't enjoy that kind of lifestyle; I don't like the way alcohol makes me feel, and I'd be too afraid of the possible effects that cannabis or other drugs would have on my system to try smoking it (asthma doesn't help either). That said, it's one thing not to enjoy sex drugs and alcohol, it's another to go around touting that that sort of thing is lame, or that "I never do that," and to make a point of bringing up all the juvenile things one does instead; that's where the attempt at being special comes in, I think.


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12 Aug 2015, 1:19 am

StarTrekker wrote:
I think it's just their attempt at standing out and being "different". The average, stereotypical 20-something is into parties, sex, and alcohol, so in an attempt to make themselves feel unique or special, kids have started claiming that they're "not like all those party animals: I like to stay home in my blanket fort and watch Disney." I don't really get it to be honest; I like what I like because I like it, not because it is or isn't cool, or will make me fit in or stand out.


It's kind of paradoxical, because it's as if the 'new' norm is trying to go against the 'current' norm. It doesn't really make sense to me either. Of course, not everyone who claims to enjoy childlike things or dislike partying is doing it just to be different, but it's often hard to tell who's genuine.

I think these attempts at non-conformity are simply just another form of conformity. It's a perfectly natural thing to conform, but I find it annoying when people try too hard.


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12 Aug 2015, 3:45 am

-Homosexuality; you'd think half the population was gay, not 2 percent or so
-Transgenderism; again, but the incidence of that is far less than homosexuality
-Gyms and other bodybuilding stuff; you don't need to spend money to become fit and strong, and if you're only doing it to look good (attraction), then have fun with that, Stefan
-"Sexy" dancing in mainstream media that's being targeted at younger and younger people; that's nice if you're a bonobo
-label culture; people, that just puts you in a stereotype

I guess I'm getting old or something.



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12 Aug 2015, 10:30 am

Dillogic wrote:
-Homosexuality; you'd think half the population was gay, not 2 percent or so
-Transgenderism; again, but the incidence of that is far less than homosexuality
-Gyms and other bodybuilding stuff; you don't need to spend money to become fit and strong, and if you're only doing it to look good (attraction), then have fun with that, Stefan
-"Sexy" dancing in mainstream media that's being targeted at younger and younger people; that's nice if you're a bonobo
-label culture; people, that just puts you in a stereotype

I guess I'm getting old or something.



Pretty sure homosexuality and transgender-ism aren't 'neurotypical trends'.


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12 Aug 2015, 12:49 pm

the need they feel for small talk



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12 Aug 2015, 1:01 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
Dillogic wrote:
-Homosexuality; you'd think half the population was gay, not 2 percent or so
-Transgenderism; again, but the incidence of that is far less than homosexuality
-Gyms and other bodybuilding stuff; you don't need to spend money to become fit and strong, and if you're only doing it to look good (attraction), then have fun with that, Stefan
-"Sexy" dancing in mainstream media that's being targeted at younger and younger people; that's nice if you're a bonobo
-label culture; people, that just puts you in a stereotype

I guess I'm getting old or something.



Pretty sure homosexuality and transgender-ism aren't 'neurotypical trends'.

They're not even trends to begin with...


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12 Aug 2015, 1:04 pm

The average NT in their 20's are not all into sex, parties and alcohol. That's a stereotype. OK a lot of teens and young adults, typically from about 16 (sometimes younger depending on which gang a child teen goes with) to about 21 or 22, sometimes the fad goes right into late 20's and even 30's, again depending on the person, like partying, sex and alcohol. But most 20-somethings I know (around my age) are getting into serious relationships, moving out, getting married and having children. I hear a lot of girls my age say that they're relieved when they get engaged because they feel they don't have to go out to clubs and bars so much, instead they prefer to earn money, look for a house and get married.


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12 Aug 2015, 6:42 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:
Pretty sure homosexuality and transgender-ism aren't 'neurotypical trends'.


The media and social popularity are.

The same thing happened with autism several years ago.



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12 Aug 2015, 6:55 pm

Myriad wrote:
StarTrekker wrote:
I think it's just their attempt at standing out and being "different". The average, stereotypical 20-something is into parties, sex, and alcohol, so in an attempt to make themselves feel unique or special, kids have started claiming that they're "not like all those party animals: I like to stay home in my blanket fort and watch Disney." I don't really get it to be honest; I like what I like because I like it, not because it is or isn't cool, or will make me fit in or stand out.


It's kind of paradoxical, because it's as if the 'new' norm is trying to go against the 'current' norm. It doesn't really make sense to me either. Of course, not everyone who claims to enjoy childlike things or dislike partying is doing it just to be different, but it's often hard to tell who's genuine.

I think these attempts at non-conformity are simply just another form of conformity. It's a perfectly natural thing to conform, but I find it annoying when people try too hard.


I concur. When everyone tries to be different, they mostly wind up being different in the same ways. I see it all the time on my college campus, where strange or offbeat clothing like bowties, scarves in the summer, or old fashioned leather boots are a means that students use of trying to separate themselves from the rest. Unfortunately, everyone else is trying the exact same thing with the exact same styles, so you wind up with 35,000 20-year-olds all wandering around dressed very strangely.


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12 Aug 2015, 6:57 pm

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The average NT in their 20's are not all into sex, parties and alcohol. That's a stereotype. OK a lot of teens and young adults, typically from about 16 (sometimes younger depending on which gang a child teen goes with) to about 21 or 22, sometimes the fad goes right into late 20's and even 30's, again depending on the person, like partying, sex and alcohol. But most 20-somethings I know (around my age) are getting into serious relationships, moving out, getting married and having children. I hear a lot of girls my age say that they're relieved when they get engaged because they feel they don't have to go out to clubs and bars so much, instead they prefer to earn money, look for a house and get married.


You are correct; it is a stereotype. That's why I used the word "stereotype" in my initial post.


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12 Aug 2015, 9:30 pm

Dillogic wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Pretty sure homosexuality and transgender-ism aren't 'neurotypical trends'.


The media and social popularity are.

The same thing happened with autism several years ago.


and?.....homosexuality and trandgender-ism still aren't trends.


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12 Aug 2015, 9:39 pm

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and?.....homosexuality and trandgender-ism still aren't trends.


I'll explain it to you better:

How the media and social popularity relating to those two subjects is a funny trend. Not the sexual preference and mental disorder themselves, rather how they're treated. "Autism" isn't a trend either, but how society propped it up overnight was a societal trend (and a funny one at that).

The same way "childlike objects", sex, alcohol and other things mentioned in this thread aren't trends themselves, rather how people respond to them.