Dealing with NT's is like giving an Angry cat a bath

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10 Jan 2016, 12:31 pm

The NT’s are Blackmailing us with “Woo Woo”

4. “Don’t get technical with me!” = Your “Precision” is easily defeated with my “Woo Woo”.
Precision, Logic, Rationality: That is What we are at the Core.

The NT”s are throwing a Tantrum when We do not automatically Prostrate to their Social Superiority.

Non-Conformance to Social Mores and “NT Personality Quirks” is attacked with “Woo Woo”.


Woo-woo (or just plain woo) refers to ideas considered irrational or based on extremely flimsy evidence or that appeal to mysterious occult forces or powers.

adj. concerned with emotions, mysticism, or spiritualism; other than rational or scientific; mysterious; new agey. Also n., a person who has mystical or new age beliefs.

When used by skeptics, woo-woo is a derogatory and dismissive term used to refer to beliefs one considers nonsense or to a person who holds such beliefs.



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10 Jan 2016, 3:31 pm

Meeeeeeeowwwwwww!

I have met both NTs and autistics who are into woo woo.
I wouldn't say it is entirely NT trait.
Some NTs engage in woo woo, others NTs don't.


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10 Jan 2016, 3:35 pm

I say boo hoo to the woo woo.


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10 Jan 2016, 3:38 pm

A relatively powerful person’s woo-woo easily defeats a less powerful one’s reason. What matters is who you are, not what you’re actually defending.


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10 Jan 2016, 3:42 pm

I call mine my noo noo.


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10 Jan 2016, 3:44 pm

At work, I am easily Bullied and manipulated by my Supervisors and Co-workers.
They feel justified in labeling my mannerisms anti-social because I do not return their Body language and acknowledge their "emotional cues".

I am the one held accountable for and Penalized for Their Woo Woo Feelings not being Acknowledged.

I have had many similar experiences in which it has taken me Much too long to Mentally Process the Response to an "Inappropriate Statement or Question" from an NT.

I once had a "Christian Counselor" Tell me to my face in a session "Go Live in the Forest by YOURSELF". At the Moment, I just Blanked. Not until weeks later did I come to the conclusion I should have Spit in his face and walked out, considering the people who sent me to him told him I was likely Suicidal.



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10 Jan 2016, 3:51 pm

If you're getting bullied at work can you not start looking for another job?


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10 Jan 2016, 3:57 pm

It is the Same All over. Same out come.
Tried 4 or 5 different factories in the area.
I just don't have the energy any more to Fake an emotional response well enough to satiate their need to have their Nationalistic Religious Emotional Woo Woo Stroked at every Interaction with them.



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10 Jan 2016, 4:01 pm

Can you not just go to work and do your job and then go home and just not even bother interacting at work?

Does religion come up in conversation a lot in your place of work?


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10 Jan 2016, 4:22 pm

For some reason, woo woo is actually spells whoa whoa.



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10 Jan 2016, 4:23 pm

Can you not just go to work and do your job and then go home and just not even bother interacting at work?

Does religion come up in conversation a lot in your place of work?


Religion comes up All the time in the Bible Belt.
In Factories, The Team Spirit thing is really pushed to get production numbers up.
Like it is some sort of High school Foot ball team and if you don't cheer and act excited, you get noticed like a nail that is sticking up.
There is always a Pecking Order in factories, and if you don't acknowledge this Pecking order, some of the chickens get their panties in a wad, which invites requests extra undesired emotional stroking.



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10 Jan 2016, 4:27 pm

babybird wrote:
Can you not just go to work and do your job and then go home and just not even bother interacting at work?

Does religion come up in conversation a lot in your place of work?


Someone will eventually have to inform you, in some way, you are offending their God.



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10 Jan 2016, 4:30 pm

Ah! I didn't realise you was living in a religious area.

That must be hard for you then if you are a non believer.

Sorry...


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10 Jan 2016, 4:35 pm

babybird wrote:
Ah! I didn't realize you was living in a religious area.

That must be hard for you then if you are a non believer.

Sorry...


It doesn't really matter if I am a Believer or Not.
The LinchPin of their society is Prostration to power.
Here, Wrong is Wrong and Right is Wrong.
If you are a Believer, you Prostrate. If you are not a Believer you are Wrong and deserve Ridicule & Ostracism & to have Opportunities hindered.

This Whole Place, (Judicial, Economic, Social) is Ham Strung and Extorted by Emotional Religious Bullying Woo Woo.
The Whole Place is a Giant Criminal Organization.
All of the Judicial, LEO and Municipal agencies are Owned by foreign corporations through supplying the incoming county Tax revenue.



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10 Jan 2016, 5:14 pm

NoWooWoo wrote:
babybird wrote:
Ah! I didn't realize you was living in a religious area.

That must be hard for you then if you are a non believer.

Sorry...


It doesn't really matter if I am a Believer or Not.
The LinchPin of their society is Prostration to power.
Here, Wrong is Wrong and Right is Wrong.
If you are a Believer, you Prostrate. If you are not a Believer you are Wrong and deserve Ridicule & Ostracism & to have Opportunities hindered.

This Whole Place, (Judicial, Economic, Social) is Ham Strung and Extorted by Emotional Religious Bullying Woo Woo.


Oh, bummer, I really feel for you. I used to live, went to college, and worked in the Bible Belt, and got a lot of the Christian woo woo (which I found a lot more irritating than the New Age or Eastern Religion woo woo I hear in other places I've lived). Maybe it was because Christian woo woo was so darned aggressive--they'd work it into practically every conversation and go into long, boring monologues trying to convert my heathen soul. People in most other religions and liberal Christian churches don't tend to be so pushy about it.

My parents were college professors, with my dad being a geologist, so I was pretty much raised on Evolution As Truth. I knew more about dinosaurs than my high school biology teacher. I used to get into long arguments with conservative Christians in high school and college, but finally realized I was wasting my time and just getting annoyed.

I eventually learned that the only way to win is not to play. If people asked what my religion was or if I'd been saved, I would politely say that I preferred not to discuss it. If they tried to work religion into the conversation, I would change the subject, or pretend they had not brought it up. By the way, if you are being denied opportunities because of your religion, or lack of it, that's discrimination. As for missing on social cues, could you talk to your manager and tell him/her that you don't pick up things like body language or subtext?


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10 Jan 2016, 5:38 pm

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By the way, if you are being denied opportunities because of your religion, or lack of it, that's discrimination. As for missing on social cues, could you talk to your manager and tell him/her that you don't pick up things like body language or subtext?


The Management just Lies. Claims you are just Fabricating claims of harassment / discrimination etc. Calls you a Liar, Fires you, and Calls the Cops on you to Trespass you from the Building & Property.
Almost All of the large corporations here have a Lawyer as Head of HR.
They just Stone wall, Stay Silent and Hide behind Lawyers / courts and the Bought off Corrupt LEO & Judicial.
The nearest employment discrimination lawyer is 200 miles away, I think there is only 3 in the entire state.
I called 9 local lawyers, none of which even returned my call.