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13 Feb 2016, 10:40 am

I can't take showers. My touch sensitivity is too bad. I constantly have to keep moving which body part is held under the water and I end up spinning round and round and feeling dizzy :lol: it's because of the water- when the water comes down onto one part of my skin, after about ten seconds it starts to hurt, then afterwards it feels numb for about a minute. Does anyone else have this problem? And also, do any NT's get this?


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13 Feb 2016, 11:48 am

My daughter has described something like this regarding showers. She therefore prefers baths. She is diagnosed with Aspergers.

If you are able to get a hand-held shower attachment, so that you could exercise more control where the water hits and how hard, it might make things easier on you. Another suggestion is simply to take a small bucket into the shower with you, and give yourself a "sponge bath" using a washcloth to lather yourself and then pour water in a stream (from the bucket) to rinse yourself.


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13 Feb 2016, 11:56 am

Showers give me sensory overload too, and I end up feeling dizzy and sick afterward. Baths are definitely better, but I don't have a bath tub. I've tried sponge baths, but don't like the feeling of things rubbing against my skin. Still, in some ways it beats dizziness. I guess it's just a matter of trying everything, and choosing the least painful option.



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13 Feb 2016, 4:07 pm

I prefer a bath over a shower, but it's not anything to do with sensory issues. I just enjoy relaxing in the bath.


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13 Feb 2016, 4:35 pm

Just a thought, how powerful is your shower?
I had to have a shower at a friends house once and he must have had such a powerful pump that it was painful, I asked him why he had to have such a powerful shower as it must waste so much hot water.
My own shower is ok, like standing in warm rain.



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13 Feb 2016, 4:39 pm

VERY common in the autistic community. I don't know if NT's do feel this way but the dizziness could be due to Sensory Sensitivity or low blood sugar.

For me at first i didn't like showers but since i bathed with my sister i became desensitized to it because when SHE wanted to shower we had to shower. The sound showers make still hurts.


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14 Feb 2016, 5:31 am

Nambo wrote:
Just a thought, how powerful is your shower?
I had to have a shower at a friends house once and he must have had such a powerful pump that it was painful, I asked him why he had to have such a powerful shower as it must waste so much hot water.
My own shower is ok, like standing in warm rain.

It's not even that powerful, I'm basically sensitive to any shower. I'm also extremely picky when it comes to clothing, I literally only have one T-shirt that I like and I hate wearing all my other clothes.


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14 Feb 2016, 12:09 pm

My shower nozzle is very gentle. My dad set it up that way.



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14 Feb 2016, 12:11 pm

I like strong shower heads--because then I don't have to stay in the shower a long time!

When I was a kid, I really only could take baths; I had trouble with showers.

Fortunately LOL....those were the days when prepubescent boys only had a take a bath once a week!



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14 Feb 2016, 12:27 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Fortunately LOL....those were the days when prepubescent boys only had a take a bath once a week!


As a kid we had a bathtub but no running water, and had to heat river water on the stove for baths. That was until my dad made a 'shower' out of a bucket with a hole in the bottom. Ah, the good old days...



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14 Feb 2016, 12:33 pm

LOL...it really wasn't that long ago. You were a kid in the 70s and 80s. What part of the US did you live?

My wife used to have to haul water from a stream a half mile away from her home. This was during the 1950s in Trinidad and Tobago.



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14 Feb 2016, 12:35 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
LOL...it really wasn't that long ago. You were a kid in the 70s and 80s. What part of the US did you live?


The back woods of Maine. It was more due to lack of money, than available technology. Fun times though!



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14 Feb 2016, 12:39 pm

Yeah...it does build character. And it helps you endure during hard times when you do have these conveniences.

Were you in northern Maine--like around Caribou? Winters are cold there! You could get Minus 40 in the rural areas quite easily when there's an arctic outbreak.



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14 Feb 2016, 12:41 pm

I understand how the sound of the shower and the sensation of the water can be overwhelming, but it doesn't bother me too much. I tend to get distracted with my thoughts in the shower and take a long time getting clean. I have to consciously make myself take a shorter shower when I have/want to.



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14 Feb 2016, 1:00 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Were you in northern Maine--like around Caribou? Winters are cold there! You could get Minus 40 in the rural areas quite easily when there's an arctic outbreak.


No, I was farther south - but yeah, it definitely got cold at times. Which adds another level to the sensory challenge of trying to shower, or bathe, or even just change your clothes without extreme discomfort!



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14 Feb 2016, 1:05 pm

It's weird - the water from the shower "drums" into my skin, and it literally feels numb if I stay in one spot. It's such a weird sensation, quite unpleasant. I prefer baths for that very reason too.


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