Maybe I have not been missing much...

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I often feel sort of down that my "friendships" never seem to work out. I meet people, we hang out for awhile, with the exception of my husband, I can't think of a single friend I have had for more then a year, and that includes the people who I consider friends, but really they are just people I know.

Anyway, I am surfing through Facebook, looking up a graduating class that was mine or near mine (although I only attended the school for about 18 months. And I find someone who I considered "in my social circle" from that time, although we where not "friends".

So, I am looking at their "friends" at facebook, to see if I know any of them, and I come across this discription of how the person I knew, met this "friend" that of course, I don't know:

I guess...

I can't keep friends for long either-and currently have no other person to share anything with

Hard to believe! you are right, missing idiots like that is a good thing.

The thing with facebook, I know alot of my friends add wierd stuff to where we met. An example being, I am listed as having been in a relationship with one of my friends since he was born. Neither of us is gay (but we do sometimes talk rather dirtily with tonnes of implied meaning), and I have only known him for 6 years, not the 18 listed

Other people I know put rather scary graphic things up on FB as well - I don't understand why, but I think its is a statement that you are comfortable with your sexuality, so you joke about in ther ecase homosexual relationships.

Is that not rape that your previous 'friend' has said he's done - would anyone who had done that actually write it up in a public area?

Human relationships werent really meant to last. People are constantly changing and evolving and often have little control over what they become.

Two people who get along fine can and often do change into people who cant stand each other a year or two later.

i think the last real frineds i had were in highschool. that was like 7 years ago
hahahaha

Who cares about "friends" like that? What can they offer intellectually? You might as well befriend a turnip.

sounds tasty

I have found that my cats are much more loyal friends than most people. I had one cat for 20 years. I am not likely to find a person compatible enough to live with for that long. If and when I do ever get married (not likely), I want it to be for keeps. My greatest friendships have been made through my Siamese cat club on the Internet.