Wave Tossed wrote:
I was non-verbal until I was around 5. I used to wander around, avoiding other children. I used to keep things in my mouth (my version of stimming). I was and still am very picky about my food. I rarely look people in the eye; if I look someone in the eye, then if they say something, I don't understand them; I have to look away in order to understand them. I am hypersensitive to noise and light.
Many, many, many decades later, I was able to train for and get a job in computer programming and live independently. I don't do the hand-flapping thing very often. Instead, I grind my teeth, and flip my leg and foot around.
As someone once said: if you've met an autistic person, then you've met one autistic person.
I have done a lot of stimming but my parents influenced me out of my most prominent ones. Biting my shirt, putting toys in my mouth and really anything, though they're might be more these are just the ones I remember. I done some rocking and hugging myself to comfort myself. It helps me calm down. I also hug things, to. I don't grind my teeth, Though I do sometimes bite my tongue or cheek. I also pick the scabs of particularly my lips. I don't flip my leg around though recently I did start doing that. I didn't originally look people in the eye, but due to therapy I took part in it so they would stop bothering me. It's hard for me to focus on what they say, but I do hear them it is just less likely for me to reply. I often stare at walls because of this. Or at there hair or mouth. Me, to I tend to eat the same thing every day for Lunch and Breakfast, and am upset if We run out of said thing, and don't eat. I love wandering aimlessly and avoiding people I make it into a game (Bonus points for them spotting you and thinking they're mind is playing tricks on them):lol: . Though I tend to wander till there is nothing left to explore than attempt to find my parents. Though my developmental milestones we're way above average. I spoke in full sentences by 1, and Walked by like 1.5, though due to abuse, my Potty training was late.
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I am pieplup i have level 3 autism and a number of severe mental illnesses. I am rarely active on here anymore.
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