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asp159
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
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Gender: Male
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10 May 2016, 6:44 am

Probably due to my aspergers I have severe issues communicating with people mostly out of anxiety that I'd come across as weird and get rejected. I am bisexual and use websites like plenty of fish and grindr. I've been on them for about 7 years now and only met one girl and a few guys. When I met with most of them the communication seemed awful and others not too bad, a short while ago I met a guy and to my surprise he asked me whether I had aspergers before revealing that he had it too. Soon as he said that conversation seemed to go really well and he even asked to meet me again. However a few days after that I texted him and he didn't reply, I sent a few more a few days later and he never replied since though I've seen him active on the site. This has happened with most of the others as well even if the date seemed to go OK. I don't know what the issue is but I've pretty much given up because I only get to meet someone about once a year now and this is happening every time. Why do they even ask to meet up again if they plan on ignoring me?Anyone else get this or understand it?



Tori0326
Toucan
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Joined: 12 Mar 2011
Age: 54
Gender: Female
Posts: 293

11 May 2016, 12:44 am

I usually experience this myself. Communicating online goes OK, I think the meet up / date goes well but that's it. Never heard from them again or get brushed obvious enough for even clueless me to catch.

Don't know why. Can only conclude it's my traits I can't see.
I have been with someone for a few years now. Just got to find someone who likes your quirks.