I tend to call them "mainstreamers," because I went for many years without knowing about autism, and I ended up aligning strongly with the avant garde, alternativists, oddballs, dropouts, hippies etc., as I found those folks were very often much more capable of empathising with me and treating me like a respected equal. I also used to call them "straights" but people mistook that for "heterosexuals" which caused a lot of confusion. "Suits" was sometimes quite good, but Doc Martin wears a suit and he's very likely one of us. "Right-wingers" works surprisingly well for me but only because I align with the left, which not all Aspies do. Ditto for "religionists," as I'm an atheist. The neat thing about "mainstreamers" is that few people seem to identify as that, so it doesn't seem to cause much offense when I'm ranting about what I dislike about "the other lot." Often I wonder if there is such a thing as a complete and utter "other lot" person.