autistics who suffer with head-banging

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20 Jun 2016, 4:39 pm

because i have same behavior :cry: sometimes i hit myself in the head, more often banging. sometimes hit my knees/legs in extreme upset and cry :cry:

isabella (from helena rutan) sufferes in horrible self-hitting and banging every day and has to wear a helmet regularly to protect her head from her fists :cry: do you suffer like that?


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20 Jun 2016, 5:37 pm

When I have a meltdown, sometimes I hit myself on the head, or punch my thighs or shoulders. I don't wear a helmet or any other protective gear, though, because I never seriously injured myself, and it doesn't happen frequently enough to need constant protection. My partner knows how to restrain me in a non-violent way that will help calm me down.



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20 Jun 2016, 5:44 pm

When I read the thread title I immediately thought of some metalheads anonymous type of thing...


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04 Jul 2016, 12:55 pm

When I'm frustrated or overwhelmed it's often very difficult to avoid the urge to either slam my head into things or punch myself or otherwise self-harm in those sorts of ways. I don't know if it's related to ASD, a meme-like behaviour or simply having a poor tolerance for frustration.


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04 Jul 2016, 1:05 pm

Yes, this happens to me frequently during meltdowns. I often get the uncontrollable urge to hit myself repeatedly in the head. I didn't see it much of a problem until my last meltdown just about a week ago, where I actually injured my head, thumbs, and wrists by hitting myself so hard during a fit. Now whenever I feel the urge coming on I rush over to my wife and ask her to squeeze my hands really hard or stuff me into a super tight bear hug until the urge goes away.


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04 Jul 2016, 6:00 pm

do you like heavy metal?



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04 Jul 2016, 6:06 pm

Magi wrote:
do you like heavy metal?


I like my metal like I like my coffee...

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04 Jul 2016, 7:53 pm

I did it to stim and when had meltdowns. My dad forced me to stop after i smashed my head and split it open on a windowsill. This was before my diagnoses. He never liked my head banging but the split head and concussion was the last straw.


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04 Jul 2016, 7:56 pm

The captcha on this site is likely going to cause me to split my head open.


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04 Jul 2016, 7:59 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
The captcha on this site is likely going to cause me to split my head open.

My ipad is going to cause me to split my head open the stupid keyboard disappears whenever im in the middle of typing


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04 Jul 2016, 8:06 pm

ZombieBrideXD wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
The captcha on this site is likely going to cause me to split my head open.

My ipad is going to cause me to split my head open the stupid keyboard disappears whenever im in the middle of typing


I may or may not have made a rather loud 'urgh' in response to that. That would drive me guano insane. I can deal with people not behaving consistently, but machines acting that way is likely my primary berserk button.


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04 Jul 2016, 8:15 pm

I used to do it but I grew out of it I think? Not sure if it was a result of my meltdowns or a form of self harm



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04 Jul 2016, 8:24 pm

I slap my head and body more than punch myself or bang my head against something. But it does happen.



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04 Jul 2016, 8:41 pm

you guys need to try cbd oils. i tried tonight for the first time and they work great



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04 Jul 2016, 8:50 pm

Magi wrote:
you guys need to try cbd oils. i tried tonight for the first time and they work great


I smoke, it helps, but it's not a panacea. I'd be willing to try cbd oil or honey oil but they're both more expensive.


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