help needed please

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02 Sep 2016, 8:26 am

Helped an old guy out who wasn’t a friend just someone I meet now and again on the field walking my dogs.
saved him money and hassle by offering legal advice for free as my partner was a lawyer for 12 years so invited him to my house to help him.

then a week later I met him while walking my dog and he thanked me and then said basically hinted right to my face that he would like to sleep with my wife if I would let him (in a more cruder way than is acceptable for here). He is a crude Nt im aware of this but this was so shocking that someone would have so much disrespect for me that they would say such a rude thing.. Do NT's interpret kindness for something to exploit?
is this disrespectful enough to warrant saying something to him?

Shocked that the friendlier you are to people the more they see you as something take advantage of…

Vile savage primitive species humans seem to be

I have aspergers

Any help would be appreciated

thank you

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kraftiekortie
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02 Sep 2016, 8:29 am

This man is a most unusual NT. Very much a creep. And someone to be avoided.

Most NT's, or people in general, wouldn't propose that they sleep with a man's wife.

I this this for a fact, despite my cynical attitude at times.

lazylizard
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02 Sep 2016, 8:36 am

ty for you're prompt reply

worth confronting?

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02 Sep 2016, 9:20 am

Just tell him that you are faithful to your wife, and that she is faithful to you.

The best thing would be to avoid him altogether.

lazylizard
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02 Sep 2016, 10:06 am

thank you