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06 Jun 2017, 4:38 pm

I know Aspergers have a hard time dealing with angry, I have a VERY BIG problem with my sister, she did stuff to me that I can't forgive her for, I do want to forget & move on. If someone can't understand you & won't learn. Can you have a bad reaction to your sister? This may sound silly.

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06 Jun 2017, 10:29 pm

I'm not sure what you mean, but a person can have a bad reaction to pretty much anything, even a bad reaction that's difficult to change or forget.

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07 Jun 2017, 1:47 am

you feel tense and more angry when she is around you?

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07 Jun 2017, 6:10 pm

Kiprobalhato wrote:

you feel tense and more angry when she is around you?

She lives 4 hours away from me, I haven't seen her in 2 years, but I have to text her, she's in charge of my special trust fund, I got my apartment with her credit & her name is on my bills

When I'm texting her, I can get stress & angry, I want to break my iPad.

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07 Jun 2017, 6:14 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:

She lives 4 hours away from me, I haven't seen her in 2 years, but I have to text her, she's in charge of my special trust fund, I got my apartment with her credit & her name is on my bills

When I'm texting her, I can get stress & angry, I want to break my iPad.

You can't handle the bills and trust fund by yourself? Are you a minor? Can't you get someone else to help you with that stuff so you don't have to contact her?

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07 Jun 2017, 6:15 pm

My sister used me over the years and we got in a huge argument about it one night. The next morning she was nearly killed, I spent the next 6 months taking care of her and spending the majority of my money helping her get back on her feet. As soon she got her settlement, she disappeared.

At this point, I don't think I could ever forgive her.

Only advice I can give. Is learn the skills you need to take care of your own finances. So you can be more independent... Local community college or library would be a good start.

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07 Jun 2017, 7:34 pm

SH90 wrote:

Family can treat you worse than strangers sometimes. At least now you know the tough love approach is the one to take with said sibling.

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07 Jun 2017, 9:03 pm

Aristophanes wrote:

SH90 wrote:

Family can treat you worse than strangers sometimes. At least now you know the tough love approach is the one to take with said sibling.

Why does this seem so true? Family members are the people whose suppose to treat you the best. But they usually treat you worse than strangers or non family members.

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08 Jun 2017, 2:30 am

SH90 wrote:

I can take care of my bills. My mother put my sister in charge of my trust, I can't have more money, I'm on SSI.

Sorry about your sister.

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