Tony Attwood's son diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome
https://www.theguardian.com/society/201 ... is-own-son
I recall reading elsewhere that Tony talked about his stepfather being Aspergers, which he has attributed to the fostering of his professional interest in it. Although we don't get them here very often, I have known NTs who just can't see AS (or any difference) as applying to people they love. There are some in my extended family, they have always known us as we are, and regard us as a "normal" variant of a complex extended family, though this may be enhanced because the AS members are in the majority, so the NT members try to fit in with us, knowingly or not..(not only are we in the majority, we have been in the majority for 5 generations so far, the two generations before me and two generations since, on both sides of the family). The NTs family minority members aren't in conscious denial, they grew up with us and so we are their definition of "normal", given our familiar presences.
When I saw Dr. Attwood speak last year in Long Island New York, he was very open about the challenges that he has had as a parent as well as the challenges that his autistic son has with addiction. It was an amazing talk. I was surprised that he spoke about something so personal, but I am glad that he did. For me it added another layer of validity.
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Could My Child Have Asperger’s? Two Experts Share How They Missed The Signs In Their Children
And he isn’t the only one, Elaine Nicholson, CEO of UK charity Action for Asperger’s, didn’t discern her child had the syndrome until his school picked up on his “quirkiness” and sent them to a psychiatrist.
“Despite recognising Asperger’s syndrome in one of my stepchildren, I did not see it in my own son, born seven years after my stepchild,” Nicholson told HuffPost UK.
My stepchild had quite significant speech and language issues that affected the production of his speech creating ‘babble’ and which affected him until he was 7+, but my own son did not suffer the same,” she explained.
“He was creating sentences such as ‘how extraordinary is that new toy!’ at age 20 months.
“Both did suffer speech and language issues but of varying degrees of difficulty.
“Because our youngest son was not exactly like our older son, we thought that the little differences that made him, were not Asperger’s syndrome.”
Nicholson continued: “It was not until we took our second son to a psychiatrist to check out those differences - because by then his school had picked up on his quirkiness - that, upon interviewing him, and asking him ‘if I said to you pull your socks up...what would that mean?’ and our son gestured to pull his socks up... amongst other questions asked, that my husband and I, with mouths dropped open, realised that we were in fact looking at Asperger’s syndrome once more.
“My husband is a GP, I was a counsellor working with children, our child’s grandmother worked as a teaching assistant in a special needs school, and with one child already previously diagnosed, none of us could see the Asperger’s syndrome condition in our second child.”
This demonstrates the old cliche about sometimes bieng too close to a situation to see the truth.
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This showed on Australian tv last night:
https://tv.press.abc.net.au/australian- ... abc-iview#
Did anyone here see it?
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