hurtloam wrote:
fifasy wrote:
hurtloam wrote:
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remember telling the woman pursuing me I loved another woman
What did you expect to happen?
I would go out with a guy who was in love with someone else.
For some kind of friendship. I find it odd someone can like someone enough to want love with them, then completely not want to maintain contact when they are romantically rejected.
I'm confused. Did she have a romantic interest in you, but you said you weren't interested in going out with her because you are in love with someone else, but girl no 1 who you rejected now doesn't want to be friends.
If that is the case, she maybe feels stupid and a bit raw. She expressed affection for someone and that may have been a big thing for her. I find that maintaing contact with someone I have feelings for who doesn't feel the same way just hurts. The feelings I have don't go away if I am around them. I still like them and it hurts because they don't want me too. So I feel it's easier to maintain a distance to get over them.
I suppose that explains it. If she wanted to get over me she thought it easier to ignore me.
On a selfish level I wanted the woman's attention even though I wasn't romantically interested. Not to lead her on but just because it is comforting to talk to someone who likes me. At least if I think she is a nice person anyway, which she was.
It still hurts but thanks for explaining thaf bit to me, it helps.
23 Oct 2017, 2:11 pm
