I'm Stressed On My Birthday

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It is my birthday today and so far I am stressed out I am now 21 years. And already I've been to church this morning I play keyboard in the band there it is fun but tiring. Got there at 9 but it didn't finish until 2pm it was baptism and about 16 people were baptised. Enough of that this afternoon my mum has invited some of her friends around and this evening is my party and between now and the party I have about 20 minutes me time on my own to calm it down.

Hope my party isn't stressing

It's my birthday today as well and I feel like s**t.
I didn't have to go to church though, so I guess it could be worse.

Congratulations to you both!! !

And be happy!! !!

It happened to me many times that "my party" was not mine. But it was good too.

Happy Birthday, Sopho and MrMacPhisto!

Hi MrMacPhisto and Soph,

when I was a child I used to love my birthday, when I would get so many gifts and would be the center of atentions.

By the adolescence I kept this same feeling, but probably due to a kind of inertia; by that time partys could be in a way threatening, even though it was good.

There was a time I felt something was wrong in my life as my birthday party was nor crowded and nor "mine" as it should be, what made me feel confused, i used to be a very inconscient aspie that didn't notice had social difficulties.

Then there was an even more strange time, in which my birthday were spent with only very few people, and even alone, it can be sad.

By now I believe I mustn't look for the same NTs goals; I wouldn't like to be in a crowded party, wouldn't like to produce a huge party... thus I won't like a crowded day at my birthday.

I think now a birthday is amoment to avaliate my life, and to define new purposes and delineate strategies to achieve it. I can look around and see so many colours, and breath a good air that makes me feel happy. I know happyness is not really out of me, and to get it is only a task of mine, as nobody can do it for me.

There are so many miraculous things around us, although its normallity prevents us to focus on such marvellous things. The existence of collours can be enough to make us happy.

Congratulations again.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

- pka SocialParadox -

Happy Birthday! I hope it wasn't too stressful.

You are?

Well, happy birthday!

I hate my birthdays too. I hate getting older, I wish I was 21 or 19.

anyway
Happy Birthday to both of you, feel happy because you have friends in WP and we are celebrating with you.

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Last edited by Ramsus on 03 Jun 2007, 9:42 pm, edited 1 time in total.

just dont have a party then? if its stressing you out that much i wouldnt even have one

Parties for children are usually for the parents. And it goes on through to your 21st. Which is usually just so your mum and/or dad can go 'lookie lookie I made an adult look how good they are I made that you know look how good I AM'

Oh. And happy birthday you two

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SOPHO!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MACPHISTO!!

Just come back from the party and it was a sucsess I was stressed earlier but I enjoied every minute

Yay!! I'm happy for u!!