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17 Oct 2006, 3:52 pm

I've read before that people with Asperger's can be quite the superhero, being able to think rationally in a dangerous situation and then finding a logical solution. Although some times they just don't realise how dangerous it is. Years ago when I lived above a curry house, some youths were braking the glass of the restuarant they had weapons and golf clubs. I went downstairs with my pyjamas on to kindly ask them to leave, they were disrupting my nights sleep! They ran off, the people above me were calling me a fool I could have been maimed. A situation I slightly misread.



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17 Oct 2006, 4:09 pm

Not me, I usually freeze like a bunny rabbit. In fact I regret doing this, I've had traffic accidents happen right beside me three times, and after freezing up, I've driven off. Terrible thing to do, but I go into a sort of shock. I've read about people rushing to someone's aid without thinking, and wish I could do that, but I don't seem to be wired for it.



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17 Oct 2006, 4:31 pm

I think when people see Aspies as brave. Sometimes they don't realize that it's easy to be brave, when you don't fully understand the perspective consequences of your bravery.


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17 Oct 2006, 4:41 pm

I wouldn't really consider myself brave. But I'm not exactly a coward either. I don't know, I guess it really depends on the situation. I did do something pretty brave last year though:

About one year ago next month, I was at home and as usual and our dogs were downstairs in locked-up in the kitchen as usual. Or so I thought. (We have our kitchen gated off so the puppies won't destroy the house. They're not puppies anymore, but with three of them, they're not exactly trustworthy). So anyway, as soon as I walked downstairs, I saw a ton of blood all over the carpet. It was about 4 x 2 square feet of it right in the middle of the great room. I saw my 8-month-old Pomeranian, Zack, laying on the couch with more blood dripping from his mouth. I was home alone, so there was no one there to help. I immediately called my mom, but it turned out she was in a board meeting and wouldn't be able to talk to me until that evening. So I called our local vet and explained everything I knew. The vet didn't really know what was going on with him, but told me to bring Zack in immediately and that it was an emergency. I called my grandpa to come pick me up and take Zack and I to the clinic. When we got there, three vets checked him out but they couldn't find anything wrong with him except that he was "droopy". But they decided to keep him for further observation in case there's anything they missed. He was at the vet's for two days until they finally figured out what was wrong with him. He has a really rare disease. Our vet (who's in his early fourties) had never seen it in his life and his father (also a vet and about seventy) had only seen it three times before. The disease is called Inflamatory Bowel Disease, which means basically his intestines implode on each other if he gets any protein at all into his system. And being a dog, it's not exactly easy to find non-protein food. He stayed at that vet for another week for an extensive list of surgeries. We then took him to a vet on the north side of town for him to be one of the first dogs to have performed a new type of surgery on. After about $10,000, everything was successful. Zack will be two this January, and he's a perfectly happy, healthy dog. And as it turned out, if we hadn't taken him into the vets that day, he would've died. I'm just glad I was homeschooled at that time. If I was still at the high school I hated in that town, things would've been much, much worse than they were. I was brave in that situation, but I was really scared, too. I was crying so much. That dog was one of my best friends at the time. When I had nobody else. This is a pretty scary situation, especially since I was only sixteen at the time.



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17 Oct 2006, 4:44 pm

Wow, that really sounds like walking in on a horror movie scene lightening.


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17 Oct 2006, 4:46 pm

Yeah, it's not something I'd expect to see as I'm going downstairs to get some lunch. lol I'm just glad the whole thing's over and that no lives were lost.



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17 Oct 2006, 5:28 pm

I can both "freeze like a bunny,"OL....and act impulsively.

I think just as there is a fine line between genius and insanity,there is a fine line between heroism and insanity....and for the same reason.


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17 Oct 2006, 5:42 pm

I make explosives on the kitchen table and drive in 200 kmph without being afraid. Then I'm scared for things like taking a blood sample.


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17 Oct 2006, 5:51 pm

For the things I have no fear of, like speed or heights, I can be so comfortable and so oblivious to any apparent danger that I forget OTHERS can be afraid of these things. So I guess that's why I've been told I was brave. I call it oblivious...

(Edit) Of course, don't expect me to remain calm if there are hornets or horseflies nearby. I have a deep-seated phobia of large, buzzing, noisy, stinging insects...



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17 Oct 2006, 5:55 pm

Sometimes, I don't have danger sense, and I can act "like a hero".



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17 Oct 2006, 8:26 pm

SamuraiSaxen wrote:
Sometimes, I don't have danger sense, and I can act "like a hero".


Same here, continually. About a month and a half ago, I was riding in a delivery truck at work and we got into an accident with a lady who's brakes had failed. I ran over to her car to see if she was ok, and was inside her car attempting to help her out of it. -- Whatever type of flash powder is used to deploy the airbags is rough on the lungs.


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17 Oct 2006, 8:29 pm

I'm not the bravest in the bunch, but I have an extremly high tolerance for pain, so it appears that i am brave. Im always willing to take a hit for the team.


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18 Oct 2006, 1:30 am

i often find myself better at 'crisis' situations as everyone around me freaks out. calm people down, take charge of the situation type of thing.

i don't consider this bravery, i consider it the 'next logical step'.

it's funny cos i freak out at stuff that people consider 'non-critical', like having to go see a doctor or sending in a resume, or going for an interview.



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18 Oct 2006, 2:22 am

Generally so.

Something NTs really like is when you do something that you didn't even know was considered brave (until they said something about it) and as a result you appear (and, in fact, do) show complete humbleness about it! For someone to be truly humble about something must be something NTs really, really enjoy because in their world they may not see it often enough. I'd rather not share specific events, but this kind of thing, more than anything else, has temporarily upped my social status for a day or two or even years.



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18 Oct 2006, 2:51 pm

Yes, bravery is something I have a lot of.. if you can have "a lot of" it :wink:



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08 Mar 2018, 12:58 pm

getting in fear's face